Why Does A Manipulative Lying over 45 yr old Man Waste Almost 4 yrs, With A Decent Woman

I am not prepared to use the label "troll", but this thread is strange. As originally presented the OP is an insecure controlling bitch. Are folks around here bored? Trolling the gutters for friends?

I dont get it.

She's nuts...it's fun. What can I say?...as long as she doesn't "catch" him watching porn and she can still endorse her fantasy that she's the hottest...otherwise he's a pedophile.....according to her.

Ok quote time...

You say
" No one cares about porn thus far of the members replying to you and some have stated clearly, their man has or does watch it including me.. "

Yet you flip flop to the other side, when you assume legal porn, of a concern inducing nature, is a absolute danger, and requires immediate protection.

You say:
"You have a teenager, he watches "kids" 18 she's a kid.... You have a "kid"... A decent Mother would forgo her own needs to ensure her child is protected. How do you know he wouldn't sneak into her room? Are you a mind reader? What if he did then what would you be saying, sorry?

Kick him to the curb and protect your kids.

You say:
"I was protecting his daughter "our daughter" by her not finding out her Dad viewed that, at 11 years of age. What have you done for your daughter with protection? "

No one can really know if questionable PORN is being watched by their man... unless they chose to look on occasion, and you have not, in a long time... BUT it's a lot easier to turn a blind eye, and say I trusted him and didn't have any clue, when something goes horribly wrong.

This site/thread has become more of a ongoing debate for me, than anything else.

I am far from telling people to do what I say...

I mean really, in the big picture I know none of you, so why would I care what you think, do, or feel, other than on a very superficial level. Same goes for your judgements , on my thoughts, actions, and feelings.

I don't mind being in the minority, in not uninhibedly embracing with all abando n, every vice this world has to offer. Some liberals are just as bad, if not worse, that some of the worst christians... Liberals will just stubbornly tell you they are right, and you have the issue... If a over the top christian starts harping about how sinful your life is, and you ask him/her, if you have the free will to live your life your way and suffer the consquences, they have to say yes, or their a phony.

My opinion, liberals are way more judgemental of a persons choices...

Absolutely no one on this thread feels it doesn't really matter if children are being abused... Who makes such a ridiculous statement.

At this point back pedaling won't work. You have exposed yourself.

You know honestly? I love answering people in hope that something I say "helps" you never know though I learnt along time ago, 99% won't listen, 1 will you only need that 1 (if what you write, is well, right)

But, I confess... It is fun... I think she wrote back to me, not sure, haven't read it yet.

Imagine if this was all real.....and we knew where you lived.....and he abused your daughter.......and this was your defence to the Police......................"I didn't have a clue, I trusted him, I turned a blind eye" Wait, did you turn a blind eye lady or not have a clue..." mmmmm case closed.

I do too FS..and I think your advice is usually great...but---not everyone is great or functional...some people are plain dangerous in my opinion.

Thanks mam.

Oh yeah, I hear you.. But it takes all sorts....

What a joke you bullies are...

Not much of a intelligent debate here...

Found soul, one of your posse, is the one who is oh so anxious that he is a pedaphile... kick him out, now!!! You've got to protect your daughter, from this PORN watching, sexual monster...

But be harsh and judge one of your own, NEVER

I guess a troll is someone not in your group, who is too strong to bend and agree to everything you people say... not that that is possible, since these posts are all over the spectrum, often in complete opposite positions

You had to know this statement was meant for women who never intentionally snoop, as you call it...

BUT it's a lot easier to turn a blind eye, and say I trusted him and didn't have any clue, when something goes horribly wrong.

It could happen one day, though I sincerely hope not... That one of your groups daughters could come crying to everyone, saying that she did exactly as you all said and never snooped, like a good little soldier wife... and now her life is destroyed by his vile actions... And it ends up becoming known, that one of those sad 18 and abused like web sites, was on his phone or computer, a month before the dastardly deed...

Listen..

You came on here angry according to you, knew the answer, wasn't looking for one, venting....

You claimed you were a decent woman, your ex watched porn, this guy lied, said he never did but then you talked about dating sites, not porn, now it's porn of young teenagers.

If you are even real, you are in denial refuse to leave a guy that 1) doesn't respect you and your wishes not to watch porn and 2) that watches 18 year olds abused and you have a daughter. No Mother again, in my opinion would remain with any man that did that if she had a daughter, she would not put that daughter though "any" risk what so ever. He's not watching matured women, he's watching babes that have just left the nest.

This is why I can't fathom what you are writing, that you are even telling the truth about anything, or it happened and you are in denial.

Google Troll.... You're trolling.

"Christians" like you don't seem to realise that yours is not the only belief system in the world. You think you have the right to tell other people who don't share your warped ideals what to do.

The main problem is your story keeps changing, first of all it was porn, then infidelity, then paedophilia, then not really paedophilia, but even though the women are adults they shouldn't be allowed to do what they do, because anyone who watches a pornographic film has to want to abuse children.

You betrayed a trust, you spied on his personal files and you think that's fine. It's not, all relationships that are worth anything are based on trust. In yours there's none, and it's no wonder he's beginning to look elsewhere, the atmosphere must be stifling.

If you never let a dog off a lead, don't be surprised if the one time it slips its lead it creates merry hell.

No thanks, that seems more your cup of tea. There's plenty of nasty things on the internet I have no intention of seeing.

Although I imagine it can be googled. You should meet some of the weirdos on A2K for whom Google is just too mild, and consider yourself lucky.

(slightly edited by myself to make coherent, but the meaning is the same)

http://able2know.org/topic/257742-42#post-5821917<br />

Your statement from someone on A2K: The guy who talks his woman into letting him nail her tits to a board is normal.

Absolutely disgusting...

This site is not for me...

The people who post comments, might/will likely

1) take what you say out of context...

2) twist information...

3) focus on one word, misread completely, or doesn't understand at all what the poster said, but comments anyways

4) assume she/he is someone they have dealt with in the past, or just assume in general

5) Judge the person , because they have different thoughts...

If a commenter asks a question, and the poster answers, then
they all say.... she said this, now says that, did you see that her story keeps changing... You people are clueless how conversation and communication works...

Way to much drama

Ya, I am still on the theory that we are bored. You were useful for a wee bit of entertainment though.

Thanks. Hi. Goodbye.

WAIT you were the selected answer

WOW. This thread is even more bizarre than I knew.

How do we go from watching porn and raping or not raping women?

Sorry I do not see the connection as if I could never, for whatever reason, not watch porn again in my life that would not increase my desire to rape a woman from zero to some higher value.

An I think that would be true of almost all men for that matter.

In any case, thank god my wife find my porn collection amusing at worst and surely not a threat to her of any kind.

I had never ran into naked sex hookup sites and even escort sites which are hardly "dating sites" normally do not have completely naked pictures of the their employees.