Why Does A Manipulative Lying over 45 yr old Man Waste Almost 4 yrs, With A Decent Woman

@chai2,

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@knowledgeispower123,

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I don't accuse him of being a pedophile, but I have a real reason to have some concern...

So you aren't accusing him of being a pedophile you just have a real reason that he could be a pedophile.

I'm not accusing you of calling him a pedophile I just have a real reason to have some concern that you called him a pedophile.

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@parados,

parados wrote:

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I don't accuse him of being a pedophile, but I have a real reason to have some concern...

So you aren't accusing him of being a pedophile you just have a real reason that he could be a pedophile.

I'm not accusing you of calling him a pedophile I just have a real reason to have some concern that you called him a pedophile.

I hope so....

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@knowledgeispower123,

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I mentioned the" 18 and abused site" (go visit, It'll be a hoot), because you asked if I caught him actually on a porn site. Also I never mentioned it was 2 yrs ago, it was very recently.

So 1) two years ago you found out he was into dating sites, to do with sex. Stayed with him, even though that's beneath you, you are worth more than that, uh uh ain't going there again, ex husband was addicted and this guy knew of that, and you stayed....................And you found out because you snooped.

Benefit of the doubt? Wink

2) two years later according to you know, you went onto his phone, found a site that he was visiting "18 and abused" and you still didn't kick him to the curb, instead he left you because you were angry..

3) When you snooped this time, which I guess you've been doing on and off for 4 years, and forgiving him like now even, you felt that the girls appeared to "look 12-16" though the site says 18. And they are being abused as in the characters are, doing things they don't want to do. You have kids, one is a girl.. Instead of kicking him to the curb he leaves you because he doesn't like your anger. Where the heck does that show you are "over protective" of your children? How about NOT at all...

You are so in denial if you are even real and not trolling. I mean you mentioned yourself trolling in one of your posts.

So many women give the benefit of the doubt? You've been doing it for 4 years and before that 15................

Get help.

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I found a site "18 and abused on his phone"... when touching that page, it takes you to site where multiple images of girls appearing 12 to 16, are looking sad and being groped by old men or holding cocks they don't want to be. I have 2 teenagers ( girl and boy) in the home to think about, and if I react over protectively, at least I'm showing concern for their safety and well being.. So many women give the man the benefit of the doubt, and act so surprised and hurt when he betrays their trust...

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@parados,

parados wrote:

I'm not accusing you of calling him a pedophile I just have a real reason to have some concern that you called him a pedophile.

wait, what?

Wink

That there is signature line material P man.

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@ehBeth,

I expected some intelligence on a forum site

I was not expecting words to be taken out of context,
twisted,
changed in the mind of the reader,

then he/she posts some barely average intelligent dribble, to try to impress or amuse friends with how witty they are.

I said
I mentioned the" 18 and abused site" (go visit, It'll be a hoot), because you asked if I caught him actually on a porn site. Also I never mentioned it was 2 yrs ago, it was very recently.

It's completely obvious, since it's in the same paragraph, that I was talking about the 18 and abused site.

So yeah,

You can't fix stupid

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when touching that page, it takes you to site where multiple images of girls appearing 12 to 16, are looking sad and being groped by old men or holding cocks they don't want to be.

Or....they are women who are over 18, and because it's a site that's called "18 and abused", it's catering to an audience that want to see women who don't look like they are 18 and are doing things unwillingly, so they are acting like they are younger than 18, and don't want to be doing what they are there for.

What a concept...

But, what do I know.

That guy who played spiderman? I saw him being a regular person in another movie, but I know that's not real because he's spiderman.

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@knowledgeispower123,

knowledgeispower123 wrote:

I expected some intelligence on a forum site

I was not expecting words to be taken out of context,
twisted,
changed in the mind of the reader,

then he/she posts some barely average intelligent dribble, to try to impress or amuse friends with how witty they are.

I said
I mentioned the" 18 and abused site" (go visit, It'll be a hoot), because you asked if I caught him actually on a porn site. Also I never mentioned it was 2 yrs ago, it was very recently.

It's completely obvious, since it's in the same paragraph, that I was talking about the 18 and abused site.

So yeah,

You can't fix stupid

You're right...abused and 18 is a mature site for men who like very young ADULT women. You're pissed...so be it. Yet you're an A-hole to associate him him with a pedophile. You're too freakin' insecure to take him..so find yourself a preacher....

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@FOUND SOUL,

So earlier you were included in this statement

Yep. You go looking for trouble, you're sure to find it.

I think you, CJ and I have learned long ago to choose what hills to die on.

This sure wouldn't be one of them.

So I'm supposedly both bad for snooping, and bad for not assuming a porn site makes him a absolute pedophile, that needs to be kicked to the curb pronto.

Meanwhile you women would not have this situation, since ignorance of the porn site if visited, by your man, would be unknown.

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@Germlat,

you and chai2 can't possibly be responding to me since I posted this at 7:57

phedo sites: which just because the girls look very much underage, is most likely just a innocent porn site, that would not bother most of you, or you would have no idea your man was even there, unless you came upon it by the purest of accidents. This is definately a site you open minded liberals should visit, as you can then say you saw the stuff, and she is over reacting. These are just 18 yr old actresses, who are very good at appearing younger. And you could say I don't have a problem if my man were to visit this one and others similar, as it's just men having some fun looking at young females

I lump it all together as pornagraphic material. Doesn't matter if you agree.

I mentioned the" 18 and abused site" (go visit, It'll be a hoot), because you asked if I caught him actually on a porn site. Also I never mentioned it was 2 yrs ago, it was very recently.

Some the other ignorant replies, actually suggested I call the police. Or immediately kick him out.

Because of porn??

I'm surprised people didn't lay into them, BIG time for being completely over reactive.

I don't accuse him of being a pedophile, but I have a real reason to have some concern... a concern most of you women thankfully, will never experience, since you could give a rats ass what your men do, pornagraphically speaking.

Why oh why can't people read and follow the thread, if their going to waste their time, and type a uninformed response

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@knowledgeispower123,

knowledgeispower123 wrote:

chai2 can't possibly be responding to me since I posted this at 7:57

And who else would I be responding to?

What does the time have to do with it?

Ok Elisua, you've had your fun. I'm bored now.

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@chai2,

Oh I was thinking the idiots who thought I should have called the police immediately?

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@knowledgeispower123,

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These are just 18 yr old actresses, who are very good at appearing younger. And you could say I don't have a problem if my man were to visit this one and others similar, as it's just men having some fun looking at young females

Ha.ha.ha

I don't know whether to laugh or cry....... We could say you don't have a problem at all with guys looking at porn.. WT? WT? Oh you are getting your knickers twisted...badly....

Note you've gone back and re-read all the posts again... Chai's notation that "we know what hills to die on"...

Snooping eats you alive doesn't it? Creates problems with relationships, he left not because you were angry but because you go on, and on, and on, and on, and on........................ and you snoop and snoop and snoop and snoop and snoop.... It's not doing you any good find someone who doesn't like porn. Wait, I'm confused you've just said you'd accept it ..

You've got kids, grow up.. He is looking at 18 year old (kids) grow up.. Yes he should be kicked to the curb. Not him dumping you because you nag, snoop, control and be a witch.

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Meanwhile you women would not have this situation, since ignorance of the porn site if visited, by your man, would be unknown.

Meanwhile you need to read threads. No one cares about porn thus far of the members replying to you and some have stated clearly, their man has or does watch it including me..

I'm disgusted to "think" that a 45 year old woman with a teenager daughter, has allowed this man to stay over night at her home, whilst he is known to watch 18 year old actresses, looking younger, being abused. Are you that stupid? You say you care and protect your kids... Ahha.

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@FOUND SOUL,

I should have added the word PEOPLE... And you people could say you don't have a problem if your man were to visit this one and others similar, as it's just men having some fun looking at young females...

You said:
No one cares about porn thus far of the members replying to you and some have stated clearly, their man has or does watch it including me.. YET
You have a massive problem with the 18 and abused porn, which others do not.
In fact you stated:

You've got kids, grow up.. He is looking at 18 year old (kids) grow up.. Yes he should be kicked to the curb.

Others could judge you harshly, for assuming he's a pedophile...

Because he watched some PORN you don't agree with?

So in your opinion, Kick him to the curb, or I'm not protecting my kids?

Yet if I didn't snoop as you say, how would I have found out? So I could kick him to the curb, as is your vehement opinion. And your man has watched, may still, yet you have no idea if he's been on sites like this? It may not matter though, since it's his teenage daughter in the house, not yours?

NOW who is completely all over the place??

Are you that stupid?

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@knowledgeispower123,

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if my man were to visit

Then you should have said if "your" man were to visit. Come on, you keep digging yourself further. You care, you don't care...

No one cares about porn thus far of the members replying to you and some have stated clearly, their man has or does watch it including me..

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YET

Nope, I'm older than you, been married, engaged, boyfriends, engaged, I don't care.

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Others could judge you harshly, for assuming he's a pedophile...

Because he watched some PORN you don't agree with?

So in your opinion, Kick him to the curb, or I'm not protecting my kids?

Wish you would learn to quote, it would make life so much easier.

Why would anyone judge me harshly? You have a teenager, he watches "kids" 18 she's a kid.... You have a "kid"... A decent Mother would forgo her own needs to ensure her child is protected. How do you know he wouldn't sneak into her room? Are you a mind reader? What if he did then what would you be saying, sorry?

Kick him to the curb and protect your kids.

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Yet if I didn't snoop as you say, how would I have found out? So I could kick him to the curb, as is your vehement opinion. And your man has watched, may still, yet you have no idea if he's been on sites like this? It may not matter though, since it's his teenage daughter in the house, not yours?

But that is how you found out about your husband. Snooping. 2 years ago you found out your boyfriend was on sex dating sites and you kept him, even though you swore you would never, ever, allow any disrespect again... Now apparently 2 years later, after re-snooping you discovered worse, instead of going " OMG, ok my daughter is the most important this could be trouble" you got angry instead and he kicked you to the curb. No where have you mentioned her well being just your own emotions.

I saw what he was looking at and they were grown women, dark, white, all sorts.. I think he likes variety and so, that gave me ideas in the bedroom and you? How is your bedroom antics with this man the past 4 years? Care to share back?

"Our house" we moved into together along time ago love... I was protecting his daughter "our daughter" by her not finding out her Dad viewed that, at 11 years of age. What have you done for your daughter with protection?

Not me love, still grounded, still know which hill to lay on.

What is wrong with getting a reality check, everything we've said we are wrong, not 1,2,3,4,5 everything. I think Chai may be right as to who you really are.

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@knowledgeispower123,

knowledgeispower123 wrote:

Oh I was thinking the idiots who thought I should have called the police immediately?

Yes because it doesn't really matter if children are being abused, all that matters is people do what you say.

It never ceases to amaze me that so many people who claim to be Christian are actually monstrous hate filled bigots.

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@knowledgeispower123,

What you fail to recognize is that even though you see your 18year old as a child...well--others don't. It doesn't make them sick..maybe it's unpalatable to you but-- it's still not sick. So if a woman fantasizes over her (legal age of consent) pool guy it makes her a sicko? Sorry but you're severely constipated.

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@Germlat,

When/Where did I ever mention my teenage daughter or son living with me were 18 or over? Neither are...

How is using your imagination, in your own head, pornagraphic material? And quote me if I said any such thing??

Now even if your unconstipated self were to pretend... in your head... that your man in bed, WAS this pool boy or other teenage boy... on numerous occasions... I still wouldn't be so judgemental, as to call you a sicko. Everyone has free will to have their own thoughts and to make their own choices in life.

Why don't you go visit the 18 and abused site? Then tell me if you still feel that your fantasizing about teenage boys in your mind, is the equivilant to a
over 45 yr old man visiting this site, when his fiance at the time, has a underage daughter? I have concerns, and what responsible parent wouldn't...but am NOT judging that he's a pedophile...

It's possible this was directed at someone else's post, and you just assumed I made the comments, that so offended you?

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@knowledgeispower123,

knowledgeispower123 wrote:

Why don't you go visit the site 18 and abused site? Then tell me if you still feel that your fantasizing about teenage boys in your mind, is the equivilant to a
over 45 yr old man visiting this site, when his fiance at the time, has a underage daughter? I have concerns, and what responsible parent wouldn't...but am NOT judging that he's a pedophile...

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@Germlat,

Why oh why are we answering a Troll?

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When/Where did I ever mention my teenage daughter or son living with me were 18 or over? Neither are...

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his fiance at the time, has a underage daughter?

Now it's her fiancé.

Now those 18 year old girls look 12, 13. Her daughter is underage. And she has concerns but hey, he isn't a Ped and I can be concerned but not enough to stop seeing him .

And, then.... 2yrs ago I snooped and caught him looking at Porn I deserve respect, been there done that with hubby... 2yrs later, same ol only worse but you know, I'm trying to get him back, waiting for him to calm down after walking out because I was angry.... Forget my daughter.

Wonder if this is actually a guy?

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