@bobsal u1553115,
bobsal u1553115 wrote:
So you don't think dragging someones sex life into polite discussion is course and vulgar?
Oh Bob, he didn't drag my sex life into it.
He had another thread where he was asking what people miss about the 80's and 90's. His contributions were the usual animated cartoons and stuff from I think his grade school.
I wasn't embarrassed or ashamed to come on an say what I missed most about that time was having really great sex with my now late husband. I'm pretty sure no one else here is appalled by this statement of fact that people generally enjoy making love to someone they are in love with, and that when that person dies, one of the things that are missed are the times when making love/having sex occurred.
I course I miss that. I was in a state of matrimony, with someone I deeply loved for a long time. I missed the strong bond it created between the 2 of us, which was sufficient to carry us both through the coming bad years. Which now, thankfully for him because he was so very sick, are over.
I will always, until the end of my life, miss having sex with that man, after decades of our lives together. A lot of other things too. But that's a big one, and not something to be embarrassed about or ashamed of. The actual moments were obviously private, but it's not like people/adults don't know that people, married or not, have sex.