Why Does A Manipulative Lying over 45 yr old Man Waste Almost 4 yrs, With A Decent Woman

@knowledgeispower123,

Then maybe not! Maybe he wasn't out to defraud you. Maybe people don't think it's a crime to look at porn. It doesn't make them more likely to be unfaithful....your boundaries seem quite rigid and you seem to absolutely associate one thing with another...abortion and porn? What the hell? One thing is for sure...you're poorly suited for one another. BTW--I don't agree if you look at porn it makes you a deviant...I think that's plain ridiculous...I'm a female...

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@chai2,

I love Koothrapalli.. Very Happy

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@chai2,

omg, that's hilarious!!

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@Germlat,

I was responding to Lost Soul, who questioned my disrespect of other women's choices. And a women choosing an abortion, is not a action, that would ever earn respect from me. So no, abortion and sexual depravity, have nothing to do with each other.

You ladies seem somewhat naive, if you are under the impression, that men's curiosity, that draws them to porn in the first place, doesn't lead them to watching violent sex, borderline child porn, and other truly deviant sexual behavior.

Maybe he wasn't out to defraud you? Bull
If you don't have the balls to, communicate, renegotiate if circumstances change, be truthful, then your not worthy to be trusted.

A relationship is dead in the water without trust

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@knowledgeispower123,

Your very last statement is absolutely correct, everything else is only true for yourself.

I am pro choice - never would have an abortion personally, but who am I to tell another woman what to do with her body. Do you know her circumstances? Hardly! Don't judge unless you have walked in the same shoes!

If you personally don't accept your partner watching porn, it's your own opinion. To insinuate we're naive or it would escalate to watching violent sex or child porn is truly wrong and malicious on your part.

No one is objecting to your personal opinion, but what you're making it out to be is most definitely not correct. Slowly I realize why your partner is watching porn.

I am far from naive, by the way, I am just tolerant and where I come from people run around naked in the park and have co-ed saunas.

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@knowledgeispower123,

The church lady LOL....I knew I recognized this character from SNL..

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@CalamityJane,

I never would have an abortion personally, and would not tell another woman what to do with her body. Neither would I respect a selfish decision to kill the fetus, rather than bring it to term and give it up for adoption, to a loving family.

Until you have experienced to what depths a male with a porn addiction will sink to, you have not enough knowledge to really voice a opinion how innocent porn viewing is, when you have not a care or interest in what your man is looking at.

In my opinion, assuming it is innocent, is naive.

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@knowledgeispower123,

Found soul Smile

Isn't it funny how people can see words but when they compute it, it comes out differently (lost).

Somehow I feel you feel that, lost of how you went wrong twice.

No I still don't think he lied, unless you caught him with Porn, did you catch him actually watching porn or only on the dating sites, sex text/cam/ etc sites.

Question CJ was alluring to I think, is if you aren't open to having little or no inhibitions could a man therefore, go looking for them? I think so.

Which is why I wrote "mis-matched" sexually.

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@FOUND SOUL,

I found a site "18 and abused on his phone"... when touching that page, it takes you to site where multiple images of girls appearing 12 to 16, are looking sad and being groped by old men or holding cocks they don't want to be. I have 2 teenagers ( girl and boy) in the home to think about, and if I react over protectively, at least I'm showing concern for their safety and well being.. So many women give the man the benefit of the doubt, and act so surprised and hurt when he betrays their trust...

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@FOUND SOUL,

wow, I don't get you.

If your daughter/niece/granddaughter said someone was molesting her, would you not believe, unless you actually saw it? wtf

I don't need to have zero inhibitions, to be matched sexually, with my partner.

When I think of little or no inhibitions, men fantasize about 3 ways, are you women good with that? Are you cool with mate swapping? Are you alright with helping him hide some poor girl in the basement?

When it comes to men's imaginations, I will judge what I think is right, rather than cater to being uninhibited to try to please, an unworthy man

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@knowledgeispower123,

1. I think I wrote that wrong. Put it this way. If you are with a man who likes to have sensuality as well as sex, horny then you can't be someone who just has sex. I was suggesting then, that perhaps he was someone who liked things perhaps you don't, mis matched.

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I found a site "18 and abused on his phone"... when touching that page, it takes you to site where multiple images of girls appearing 12 to 16, are looking sad and being groped by old men or holding cocks they don't want to be. I have 2 teenagers ( girl and boy) in the home to think about, and if I react over protectively, at least I'm showing concern for their safety and well being.. So many women give the man the benefit of the doubt, and act so surprised and hurt when he betrays their trust...

Porn, sex sites, dating sites. Now we are talking phedofilia. We're talking that you have kids and what was this thread about? He left you because you were angry? Not you kicked him out because he's obviously a phedofile and why didn't you bring this into the mix right at the beginning...

Porn
Dating sites
Sex sites
Now phedo sites

Something really isn't adding up at all here.

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@FOUND SOUL,

FOUND SOUL wrote:

Something really isn't adding up at all here.

yup

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@FOUND SOUL,

It'll be monkey sex next.

I smell a rat.

Wait a minute.....don't tell me.....there's a rat smelling photo website as well.

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@ehBeth,

Anyone who comes across images of child pornography on a partner's phone yet chooses to complain about 'naked sex hookup sites,' and then, instead of calling the police, starts a thread on A2K, isn't right in the head.

You're right, something stinks.

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@chai2,

Now that was hysterical! Tnx

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@izzythepush,

She said "borderline" porn....my guess is very young women but not children.

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@knowledgeispower123,

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I have no desire to completely control the thoughts and actions of the person I'm with.

Your statements so far say otherwise.
You laid out standards that your partner has to live up to or not be trusted.
You required your partner give you passwords, etc in order to be trusted.

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A part of following our Lord Jesus, is choosing to resist temptations of the world. In these days of easy sexual depravity, where it can easily be kept secret, I may have way too high of expectations, of weak men, to refrain, of their own free will.

Ah, yes. Everyone is a sinner but you. Frankly, I think you need to get professional help. You seem to be out of touch with reality when it comes to how people act and how they respond to stimuli. Do some people become porn or sex addicts? Yes. But like alcoholism and drug addiction, using something occasionally doesn't lead everyone down that path.

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@knowledgeispower123,

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If your daughter/niece/granddaughter said someone was molesting her, would you not believe, unless you actually saw it? wtf

Now you've gone from watching porn which isn't a crime to molesting children which is a crime. Did he molest your children? Or is this just another way to make yourself superior by walking down a path that no one else has gone down?

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@parados,

Parados, I lost interest in the OP's post a while back. She does that classic thing of telling others what they have or have not experienced in their lives. All the (paraphrasing) "I'm sure this never happened to you", "well, if this happened to you, you'd feel differently" etc.

Anyone reading this can see she hops from one thing to another with no connections at all. It's like she has a grab bag full of questionable things and pulls them out at random.

This is just a troll. I've said it before, but I truly believe it's that other troll Elisua, flipping the coin.

I doubt someone who really has these types of problems would be posting here.

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