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I totally agree that women and men are equally responsible for their marriage, yet I'm still waiting to see the men at the grocery stores and such with the screaming, yelling, crying kids. Every house I enter, it's always mom who's cooking, cleaning and chasing after the kids.
I, for one, am all for equality and am hoping to see it happen some day
Sorry I don't buy this.
This is an example of perception being influenced by stereotypes.
You will often find me in the grocery store with my 2 year old daughter (the difference is with her dad, she never screams, yells or cries).
Men do a lot more cooking, cleaning and parenting then they are given credit for. The assumption is that men are lazy slobs and woman are selfless saints... This is a stereotype more than anything else.
My next door neighbor is a stay at home dad. His wife is a very busy doctor and he is responsible for cleaning, cooking and raising their three daughters while she puts in very long hours.
What happens is that women complain about their husbands... and everyone just nods since the assumption is that women are harder workers and more selfless then men. If a man complains... actually men know better now-- they would be scornfully mocked if they even try.
Starting with an assumption that one gender is harder working and more responsible in a marriage (and this assumption is made without any regard for the truth of each individual marriage) is not a good way to get equality.