Re: Sick of being turned down by wife
ebrown_p wrote:Jake is obviously putting effort into his marriage, and he has obviously made the attempt to communicate.
jakeman528 wrote:We havent really had meaningful sex in a couple of years and each instance starts with my begging for it. <snip>. I've talked to her till my )&^%^% turn blue. It always leads to a fight when i bring it up.
I'm not quite getting where the obvious effort or obvious effort to communicate are communicated in jakeman's initial post.
Begging, "talking to" and fighting don't quite make it in my book.
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You're right that marriage/relationships should have two-way communication. However, from the starting post, it doesn't even seem like there's one-way communication going on.
More input from the initial poster might help clarify at least what he's doing.