@BillRM,
Quote:But to sum up to the question of if a woman can ask to be rape and the answer seems to be yes in how the Fireflies of the world wish to redefine rape as regret after the fact combine with any voluntary drinking or drugging one her part.
I don't wish to redefine rape in any way. I support the current definitions of rape which are described in the sexual assault laws of every state. And those laws make it quite clear that all rapes are not "forcible" and they need not require "force", as the law defines that term, to be considered rape.
Todd Akin, and Paul Ryan as well, tried to limit the definition of rape to "forcible rape"--a rape in which the victim would be injured, battered, bruised, bleeding, etc. as evidence of her resistance and lack of consent, as well as evidence of the fact that force was used--and Akin made it clear that such "forcible rape" situations would be the only "legitimate" rapes--with the implication that all other types/claims of rape apparently should be regarded as suspect, possibly being consensual or fabricated allegations, and that would include incest and statutory rape, as well as many instances of acquaintance/date rape, which are most often not instances of "forcible" rapes, as the sexual assault laws define the term "forcible".
This type of thinking, that "forcible rapes" are more "legitimate" or real than other rapes, flies in the face of already well established rape laws in the U.S., the U.K., Canada, Europe, Australia, etc., which do not require that force be used in all assaults considered "rape", and it reflects an attempt to redefine rape within a narrow boundary that does not reflect current law or current thinking about the crime of rape. It revives the insulting and demeaning premise that, unless a female is battered, bruised, and bleeding, her claims of rape are suspect. Recognition of that essentially misogynistic and anti-female attitude is part of what provoked the present outcry against Akin, just as it had provoked an outcry in the past toward legislation promoted by both Akin and Ryan that limited abortion funding to only cases of "forcible rape".
Unfortunately, you share Todd Akin's view that some rapes are more "legitimate" or "real" than others, and you have continually promoted the view that only rapes that involve force, or the threat of force, are to be regarded as "real rapes". And there is ample evidence of your thinking on that score.
You have said...
BillRM
Quote:Rape is after all is a simple and straightforward concept that had been well understood for a very long time.
The forcing, by force or the threat of force undesired sexual intercourse on another adult and since date rape drugs had come on the scene the unwilling drugging of a sexual partner in order to restrict him or her ability to decline sexual acts.
http://able2know.org/topic/158723-14#post-4291762
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Quote:The current legal standard is what a reasonable person would take as a threat of force.
I had hear they wish to change that to what a reasonable woman would view as a threat of force!
God help us............
http://able2know.org/topic/158723-33#post-4296446
Quote:Men as men are always going to putting pressures on women to have sex and
as long as that pressure does not go over the line into force or threat of physical force or drugging behind the women back it is not rape.
http://able2know.org/topic/158723-25#post-4294927
And, it should be noted, your remarks about what you consider "real rape", and your equating it with only forcible rape, have provoked the same sort of outrage from other A2K posters as Todd Akin's comments have provoked on a national level. Why you, or Hawkeye (who has his own notions of "legitimate" or "rape-rape") want to interject your own controversial thinking regarding rape into this thread is beyond me. Unless you are trying, in some way, to offer support for Akin's thinking.
I really think you should continue this digression in the rape thread, and not here, unless you are offering your support for Akin's views.
Quote:But to sum up to the question of if a woman can ask to be rape and the answer seems to be yes...
And no, BillRM, a woman cannot "ask to be raped"--although Todd Akin might agree with you about that as well.