I'm neither a pervert, nor do I have a boob fixation, but I'm awfully curious...
Generally, I have little trouble picking up signals from ladies and for that matter have seldom been shy about taking a chance if uncertain. The one thing that seems to come up a lot, that continues to baffle is the boobing. Obviously, if I get boobed at a club by a girl with a smile in her eyes, there's little question why. But what about at work?
It seems roughly fifteen or twenty percent of the women I've worked with in close quarters tend to boob your arm, back or chest on the way by with a frequency that just can't be explained by accident. 80 to 85% do so seldom enough to make the boobers stand out. Now as much as I'd like to think all of these women are hitting on me, it just doesn't add up. I should note that as a rule, I do not date employees, and this is well known, so I'm sure some of it can be written off to teasing. The majority were youngsters, so I can't imagine it has a ton to do with attraction, being as I'm 38. It does seem a like percentage do actually develop little crushes from time to time, but this isn't consistent with the boobing episodes... though sometimes it is.
Small sampling of old examples that won't be recognized:
K- boobs in streaks. I'd get hit half a dozen times in a week, and then not at all for a couple.
B- boobed like nuts for a month, and then it dropped to occasional spurts.
J- would still be boobing regularly if she hadn't gone to school (huge crush on me, so that one I get)
B2- just boobed me again Tuesday Night and we don't even work together anymore... plus she's dating a friend and is too young anyway (early 20's.)
A- as near as I can figure never liked me much, but respected me... boobs me at social functions only... NEVER at work... yet my best friend reports she had boobed him at work relentlessly (he's married with children).
S- has enormous boobs, likes to show them when partying, but to the best of my knowledge never boobed anybody.
So ladies; please shed some light on the boobing, will ya? Are you a boober? Do you have friends that like to boob unsuspecting guys? Is this something girls discuss and laugh at the reactions they get from it? What up with all the boobing?