Hi Marty...
I don't know why..but I got tickled when I read your post...I think it was the
Quote:The other day his dog jumped on me leaving dirt on my leg and he bent over and wiped it off(wierd?) Then today he came over to talk about my lawn and lingered too long, I mean I have stuff to do. I know it wasn't my imagination but he touched my butt as I walked him out of the door.Ewwww.
Well, he's touching you. Its kinda strange from people you least expect it from. I have one male friend that is touchy feeling, it was weird at first, but I know thats just him now....(even though people look at us a lil strange from time to time..lol)
Ya wanna keep him friends, right...to some extent, without hurting his feelings? Well, just be sure to stay out of arms reach from him, and don't flirt back, if he starts. Kinda cut him off at the pass...
You may not realize that you are giving him signals, but sometimes we do without noticing it. Watch your body language...the eye contact, and what your doing with your arms, are you standing open to him, playing with your hair...? It may be solicting attention from him that you aren't aware of.
One hint: Watch his body language...it will tell you all you need to know, by watching him. Men will bow their chest out...just like a banty rooster, ( deep breath, chest will rise..they'll kinda hold it) ,arms are not across their chest but open, their eyes will widen, eyebrows will raise.....they will follow your lead...imitate you...its a sign of attraction.