shewolfnm wrote:For some reason, I dont quite believe this. [..]
i mean, who are the easy women sleeping with anyway?
Simple arithmetics. Sure, there are easy women too - I've known a few (no - mostly - not that way, alas) who'd go looking for fun for the night - wont see me talking the bull that "women are just not wired that way" or ****.
But there is just an imbalance. Go to any bar, and first off, most likely, there's more guys than girls anyway. Of the girls there, most seem to be with their boyfriends, whereas you're more likely to see boys on their own or with mates. Not to say there's no groups of girls out too, but just talking relative numbers. Then, yeah, single guys seem more likely to be up for it, whereas single girls - perhaps being spoiled / tired of being hit on - are more selective.
Sure there are easy women, but the competition among men is just heavier. Which means, in practice - the girls I mentioned, friends I had that did go hunting for fun - they could choose, and I'm tellin' ya, they usually did not end up going home with a kinda cute but shy-ish nerdy type :wink:
(Shy-ish nerdy types, even if kinda cute, I'm sure don't do good in the market of girls looking for a hot no-ties one-night stand anyway..)
Course, one part of the answer probably is - dont look in bars. Volunteer work is a good alternative ... but yeah, then you're probably looking at finding relationships again, not one-night stands. My dad, once divorced, went (with us kids, without us) on these group holidays, like hiking or bicycling holidays or the like - and there'd always be five women travellers on every man, seemed easy for any man looking for distraction to find it, (though again, that would then end up more than a one night stand again, my dad met two or three women that way I think).
shewolfnm wrote:I wonder alot of times if the hints and suggestions are often missed by both parties, and that is why noone goes home and gets some that night..
Thats probly true for sure tho...
I dunno.
In any case you're right, I should have meet you 10 years ago.. <sighs>
I'm sure it woulda changed my life (like, 5 years earlier than it did
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