I am a 30 year old virgin and it feels awesome

First of all, if I had my hands on you, being a pile of 'putty mush' wouldnt be an option.



and if all you wanted was your heart to burst........ wellllllllll



any-who..

I wish I could jump through this damn computer screen. Ohhhh MAN!



(i'm just messin shewolf, I know your married too. ........ )

Make me. Have something happen



I don't believe in anything anymore. If I use that advice, it will probably backfire like everything else that I have tried



My looks and personal hygiene have nothing to do with this. I see people getting it right and left, people who are uglier then me, who would certainly not win any body building contests, questionable hair and clothes. I watch my personal higene and how I dress but I am just too tired to care anymore, too tired to come up with yet another trick or game plan, only to be told that I act ridiculous and need to be myself (of course, when acting myself, I'm always told that I need to apply a certain technique). Seriously, I'm damned if I do, damned if I don't.

Wrong, suka was right to put the things he did. About women.



I am sorry, this was aimed for those who do



I can't help it if you think I am a bad person because you feel my remarks are cruel. Do you think I am shallow and superficial? Well that's fine, it doesn't bother me because I am still a virgin for the very same reason - shallow, superficial women. I just don't seem to have the "it" that would make women actually want to do something about me.

by the way Amigo do you know how many times have I been told the same "be confident" stuff? All the confidence in the world won't help if you don't know how to break the ice. I have heard it all. Just sick of trying anymore.

Oh and yes Smorgs, I do want a nice beautiful sexy woman with a tanned skin and perfect tits. Much like women wouldn't want a fat balding slob who farts.

Don't give up. NEVER give up.

It'll fall into place at some point...and you will look back on all this and shake your head at yourself.

Some golfers wait a long time before they get their first birdie...or break 80 for the first time. But if the golfer sticks to it...eventually the first birdie or first breakthrough happens.

It is gonna happen.

Stop fretting about it.

Keep living...and when it happens...it will happen.

Frank is right suka and believe it or not most guys have felt the same way you feel right now and we know exactly what you are talking about.

Thats probably the best thing you can do. Stop trying and caring about specifically getting laid.

"I watch my personal higene and how I dress but I am just too tired to care anymore, too tired to come up with yet another trick or game plan, only to be told that I act ridiculous and need to be myself (of course, when acting myself, I'm always told that I need to apply a certain technique). Seriously, I'm damned if I do, damned if I don't."

Yes suka you are right, again I know exactly what you are talking about. There was a time when I was going through a stage like the situation you are talking about and I did the same thing. I just said "awe the hell with it, i'm tired of this bullshit", I got more of a response from women because I really was being myself. After all how do you try to be yourself? I don't know what the hell there thinking about or why so to hell with what they are thinking or why.

Their is a famous writer (Charles Bukowski) and on his tombstone it says "don't try" and thats it. Please read his book "women".

In the mean time just say hi to women when you are out and about (when it is natural to do so). Not for any reason, no techniques, no trying, no plan, no anticipation. just one person saying hi to the other. say hi like you are talking to a guy and if their is some other comment that may occur naturally, say it. If they don't say anything back? F**k'em, the reason why they don't respond has nothing to do with the next person (girl) that you say hi too. Make sure you do it with a smile. Pretty soon you will have said hi to so many girls it will be no big deal. Yes i know this sounds like the same old $hit. I will do it with you starting today.

Look at the exchange I had with some of the girls here. I act like I am some kind of stud but really I am not and look at the response I get.


Also I can see you are fairly intelligent.

I think frank gave you some really good advice to.

GO RENT THAT MOVIE! I have more to say later if you care to listen. I know a forty year old virgin and other guys in the same situation and It really is not that uncommon. I know a guy that couldn't get the time of day from girls up intill he was thirtyfive. He hated women. Then all of a sudden he met somebody and got married and now he is totally different.

Whoowouldathunkit? Frank Apisa as giver of empathetic, big-brotheresque advice.

Watch it Frank, newcomers will get the impression you're a nice guy, then where'll ya be?

See look, Now we have a black man here. They invented game.

Sharing violation! Stereotype!! I'm telling!!

But seriously, Amigo - don't believe all they hype. We don't all love fried chicken, either.

You mean theres a little Dolomite in all of us.

Man, Dolemite? You been talking to some dudes that were players in the 70's, huh?

Even Cornell West has game!

we have a good pool of men on men here...


I think im gonna hang out for a while..









she(the over sexed woman)wolf

Now Cornell West definitely has game - although only thinking women may appreciate his game.

Make me.

That's right big talker MAKE ME go out and rent it.

I'd just like ta see you try.



Big fat balding guys who fart?!

Do you know where I can find any? I'm there! I can be ready in 15 minutes!

Hey, I haven't been laid in over 8 years and I was wondering if I could get some sympathy over here as well