I am a 30 year old virgin and it feels awesome

I dont think Suka is misogynistic, I think he's just frustrated. <shrugs>

Note that the guys who posted here were mostly mild and/or constructive, whereas you girls basically went off and bit off his head - piling on, too.

I think thats also cause - well - I guess most of us guys have felt like him once in our lives, at some point or other.

I dont know about Suka needing a f*ck, I think he just needs some loving. But of course, yeah, with the attitude he's got now, he's ony going to be getting hating - especially from the women. Quod erat demonstrandum. And the more he's going to get hating, the more bitter he'll become, and the worse his attitude.

Its a vicious cycle. One's gotta just break out of it somehow, some way or other, for sure - it can happen by a demonstration of willpower or by a lucky break - but its empathisable enough that he's in this vicious cycle.

Chai, I think you should take one for the team here, and turn this lil' fella into a man. He may as well learn from the best.

I feel exactly the way you feel about this Nimh. I agree with everything you said. That is why I wanted to try to help the guy. I don't think woman really understand what this could be like for him and how ilrational it can make somebody think. it reminds me how cruel people can be to you when you are in a weak and degrading position.

I think he made a big mistake coming here. He needs to learn how to turn hurt into anger and anger into strength and then he will see women don't sleep with you because they are a good person or you are a good guy.

Suka needs to understand that he can't write the rules, they were already written and there not about right and wrong or good and bad.

Sex is dawinism not altruism

If he gets through this he will develope a true sense of compasion that can only be earned the hard way and that is rare in people and the world.

nimh wrote:

I dont think Suka is misogynistic, I think he's just frustrated. <shrugs>

Note that the guys who posted here were mostly mild and/or constructive, whereas you girls basically went off and bit off his head - piling on, too.

I think thats also cause - well - I guess most of us guys have felt like him once in our lives, at some point or other.

I dont know about Suka needing a f*ck, I think he just needs some loving. But of course, yeah, with the attitude he's got now, he's ony going to be getting hating - especially from the women. Quod erat demonstrandum. And the more he's going to get hating, the more bitter he'll become, and the worse his attitude.

Its a vicious cycle. One's gotta just break out of it somehow, some way or other, for sure - it can happen by a demonstration of willpower or by a lucky break - but its empathisable enough that he's in this vicious cycle.

I feel exactly the way you feel about this Nimh. I agree with everything you said. That is why I wanted to try to help the guy. I don't think woman really understand what this could be like for him and how ilrational it can make somebody think. it reminds me how cruel people can be to you when you are in a weak and degrading position.

I think he made a big mistake coming here. He needs to learn how to turn hurt into anger and anger into strength and then he will see women don't sleep with you because they are a good person or you are a good guy.

Suka needs to understand that he can't write the rules, they were already written and there not about right and wrong or good and bad.

Sex is dawinism not altruism

If he gets through this he will develope a true sense of compasion that can only be earned the hard way and that is rare in people and the world.

Amigo wrote:

I feel exactly the way you feel about this Nimh. I agree with everything you said. That is why I wanted to try to help the guy. I don't think woman really understand what this could be like for him and how ilrational it can make somebody think. it reminds me how cruel people can be to you when you are in a weak and degrading position.

I think he made a big mistake coming here. He needs to learn how to turn hurt into anger and anger into strength and then he will see women don't sleep with you because they are a good person or you are a good guy.

Suka needs to understand that he can't write the rules, they were already written and there not about right and wrong or good and bad.

Sex is dawinism not altruism

If he gets through this he will develope a true sense of compasion that can only be earned the hard way and that is rare in people and the world.

You don't think women feel hurt and angry when they can't get sex? Take a look at the relationship forum and you'll see plenty of women saying "Where is the sex??" Women who aren't getting sex feel inferior and unattractive too.

You men are making the differences between the sexes way to big. This guy is bitter no matter what way you look at it. If this were a woman, saying she was a virgin, who was holding out for the tall, dark, sexy man, I'd say the same to her.

If he wants sex that bad, beggars can't be choosers. And plenty of ugly people are getting sex out there so it must be something other than his looks.

But I guess I am just a heartless bitch who's getting some.

AHHHH! HE TOUCHED ME HE TOUCHED ME HE TOUCHED ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!! RUN CHAI RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I wouldn't tell the female version of Suka "Get over it you ugly bitch, you make me sick".