Need your valuable advice guys!!!

We'll see! Only time will show who had to learn in a hard way.

As a slight tangent and not to nudge you into comments that are too personal, Eva, I am interested in how you and your brother communicate...

Oh come on justa Babbling!!! So if u have read the whole reply of mine from the other thread, why in the world would u conclude that I don't believe in gender equality? I do believe women and men are equal. I do believe women are equal to men in terms of intelligence. Though, there are certain limits that women should never pass because god determined that limit to women; that is family responsibility as a wife.
For instance, women are distinguished as wives whenever they engage into marriege with men. Wife means wife; Wife has the responsibility to cook, to look after chidlren, and to be the queen of the house.
It is normal for woman to go out there and fight for their rights- against those who don't think women are equal. I will never be surprised if all the CEOs, politicians, and presidents were women.
But, I will stand tall against those who oppose to take the responsibilty of wife. Woman must not go out there and say "we are equal, thus, we will not take inequal responsibility in marriege." Come on! this is not inequality. This is what makes women more women. For being men's wives, men love them more.

Ronfg wrote:

to be the queen of the house.

Advice from a wise woman to all women: "Beware of men who wish to put you on a pedestal, it usually leads to them lighting a fire at your feet"

Okay! I will stop here. It seems we are running into endless debate.
Though, it is correct to say I have valued the traditional way of family.
I suppose u r all females, and thus, all attacking me because I pointed out that I believe in traditional family, which is disterbing to modern females.

Okay, if u can't handle all those works, then just say home and take care your family. If don't wanna do the house works then don't get married. How is that?

Ronfg wrote:

OKay brooke! Let's imagine for a second that I am your husband. I wil pay all the bills; I will earn enough money (enough) to pay for our necessity; I will raise our children together because I believe this is the duty of both party. I will fix and maintain everything which requires man to do.
However, I will want u to cook the meals and clean the house. that's all I want from u. And of course, I will demand some honesty and true respect, and most importantly love.
How would u respond to it?

I don't respond well to demands.

HOWEVER - If I were the stay at home mom - and you did all of the above things, then of course I would cook and clean. BUT not on demand. :wink:

okay OKay brooke, then u onlt do the cooking. That's all. Nothing else. u do whatever u want during rest of the time.
GEEEEEEEZZ!!!
I will work, pay bills, maintain home improvements, look after children, clean house, do the shopping, and whatever, besides cooking. Now, r u satisfied brooke?

Okay I am sorry! "LET,"- I used the wrong word perhaps then. Please try to understand the language difference first.
Then, I should just say Authority, is this the word u want to hear? U have the full authority! I just have it-naturally, not because I let u have it.
I will never look down on woman who is cooking for me.

Well of course those were true 'til u guys started saying rub my feet and all.

Dude, stop insulting me, all right. I'm just trying to put that other guy in his place. Why you gotta hate? Damn.