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Brooke . . . this is an outstanding offer. All you have to do is COOK. You can have complete control over all the money. All you have to do is COOK.

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Debra_Law wrote:

Brooke . . . this is an outstanding offer. All you have to do is COOK. You can have complete control over all the money. All you have to do is COOK.

Wow!

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Are u all satisfied?

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So, the money was the problem huh>?

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Ronfg wrote:

okay OKay brooke, then u onlt do the cooking. That's all. Nothing else. u do whatever u want during rest of the time.
GEEEEEEEZZ!!!
I will work, pay bills, maintain home improvements, look after children, clean house, do the shopping, and whatever, besides cooking. Now, r u satisfied brooke?

Sounds good to me, but don't forget to do the dishes and give me a few hundred bucks a week spending money. I'll even get out of your way while you're cleaning and caring for the kids, so I'll leave you the # for the beauty salon in case there's an emergency.
I'll call you before I come home so you can run me a nice hot bath.

Montana gets home, compliments Ron on how nice everything looks, then says "would you be a sweetheart and bring me a beer while I get ready to jump into that hot bath you ran me" :-D

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Goddamn u people! why does it always has to be a money?

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Is that how u gonna treat me when I am being so nice to u all? FINE! then I will order you when it comes to food.

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Ronfg wrote:

what's the problem brooke? tell me!

Ron - the problem would be your expectations. I don't want someone that says he will let me work if I do this or do that. I don't want someone that looks down on me. You would be looking down on me every single time you said I will LET you do something.

Marriage is not about that. It's two people partnering together.

It's two people wanting to make each others life more pleasent by being in it.

It's two people that make no demands. Yet - receive the love and respect naturally that comes from loving someone.

It's two people that work TOGETHER, dang it.

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Montana wrote:

Ronfg wrote:
okay OKay brooke, then u onlt do the cooking. That's all. Nothing else. u do whatever u want during rest of the time.
GEEEEEEEZZ!!!
I will work, pay bills, maintain home improvements, look after children, clean house, do the shopping, and whatever, besides cooking. Now, r u satisfied brooke?

Sounds good to me, but don't forget to do the dishes and give me a few hundred bucks a week spending money. I'll even get out of your way while you're cleaning and caring for the kids, so I'll leave you the # for the beauty salon in case there's an emergency.
I'll call you before I come home so you can run me a nice hot bath.

Montana gets home, compliments Ron on how nice everything looks, then says "would you be a sweetheart and bring me a beer while I get ready to jump into that hot bath you ran me" :-D

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Ronfg wrote:

I will order you when it comes to food.

Huh?

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Ron
No, it's not about the money.

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Ronfg:

This is not about money; this is about control and demands made on your spouse because she is a woman. You have preconceived notions about a man's role and a woman's role in marriage. You believe that a man dominates a woman and that she MUST do certain things that are defined as woman's work and that you (as the man) will ALLOW your wife to do other things.

BUT . . . relationships are not about gender roles . . . relationships are about shared love and responsibility.

In the world today, when both men and women work outside the home, both men and women have to be equally responsible for the work inside the home. If you won't do dishes or won't do the laundry simply because you're a MAN and you believe doing such work is WOMAN's work . . . you're saying its DEMEANING to you to do woman's work.

Why? Why would it be demeaning for a man to cook and clean?

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Okay I am sorry! "LET,"- I used the wrong word perhaps then. Please try to understand the language difference first.
Then, I should just say Authority, is this the word u want to hear? U have the full authority! I just have it-naturally, not because I let u have it.
I will never look down on woman who is cooking for me.

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Ronfg wrote:

Is that how u gonna treat me when I am being so nice to u all? FINE! then I will order you when it comes to food.

Oh, you're ordering out. That's great that I won't have to cook tonight. Grab me another beer will ya, sweet stuff.

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Firstly,today, if every women were clever enough to understand that she should cook for her husband, I won't have this discussion with u all. The reason I am demanding is because women r losing this sense. In past, they were perfect, but at present, it's been changing, and I just don't like it.

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And after you get Montana a beer - come rub my feet. I'm tired. Cool

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Ronfg wrote:

I will never look down on woman who is cooking for me.

And I will never look down on a man who goes to work every day, comes home to clean the house, care for the kids, run my bath, bring me beer and give me a few hundred a week. Nope, I wouldn't look down on that, no way ;-)

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This is why women need to be controled, coerced, and demanded.

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Ronfg wrote:

Firstly,today, if every women were clever enough to understand that she should cook for her husband, I won't have this discussion with u all. The reason I am demanding is because women r losing this sense. In past, they were perfect, but at present, it's been changing, and I just don't like it.

Ron
I already told you that I'd do the cooking if you agree to do everything else. I'm with ya, Ron :-D

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Ronfg wrote:

Firstly,today, if every women were clever enough to understand that she should cook for her husband, I won't have this discussion with u all. The reason I am demanding is because women r losing this sense. In past, they were perfect, but at present, it's been changing, and I just don't like it.

Ron - if men were clever enough to understand that sharing responsibilites in a two income household is NOT the end of the world- but instead the beginning of a smooth relationship......we would not be having this discussion with you either.

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