Really? Now that IS interesting. What gives you that impression?
Go see "Hotel Rwanda."
That'll cheer you up.
I don't know, you just seem like you like being on your own. Haven't you said as much in some of the past single sob story threads?
You're a mean little pitcher of koolaid, gargamel. Somebody ought to just knock you right over.
Kicky - I don't mind being on my own, but I do miss being in a relationship - and surely I miss sex.
I know. I think it's funny to be a bastard with a Kool-Aid avatar.
Kicky-it may be good to not have fantasies but it kinda makes me feel very unhuman.
No offence but from reading your posts in the past I always got the inpression you were a teenager not a guy in his 30's.
I dont see why you should say no just coz you cant see it going anywhere,you could be waiting a long time for Miss Right.If you make it clear that you are not looking for a long relationship(with her)then at least she knows where she stands and like someone previosly mentioned, girls can be just after nooky too.
Littlek-it is depressing isnt it.But some people are happy and have glimmers of hope in relationships and f*ckbuddies..................b*st*rds!!!!!!!
Material Girl - And some people can be happily invovled with someone they're not all that into .
littlek wrote:Kicky - I don't mind being on my own, but I do miss being in a relationship - and surely I miss sex.
I'm on my way...I'll see you tonight at midnight.
eoe wrote:You're a mean little pitcher of koolaid, gargamel. Somebody ought to just knock you right over.
He could have at least said Sideways or Ray.
I don't get the Hotel Rwanda joke. I'm guessing it's a movie about something really horrible and heartbreaking, right?
I feel so left out. Like when I attended the gang-bang and the lovely lady wouldn't fellate me just because I have huge, pussy, boils on my penis. I've never seen Hotel Rwanda....tell me more.
Anyhoo, I'm actually lazy right now, too, Kicky. I haven't been putting much effort in at all. But it comes in stages, any point now I'll be hitting on everything within penile striking distance.
material girl, buy a couple of those romance novels. That'll give you plenty to fantasize about. That was my staple during my dry period (almost six years celibate)
One thing about my fellow sisters that bugs me to no end. They meet a guy and claim to be after dick only but they have ulterior motives and sooner or later, they try and change the rules of the relationship. I've known many women who have agreed on 'casual' relationships knowing full well that that was not what they were looking for but went along just to get their hands on the guy. And then when the guy gets tired of them calling and hounding him, trying to make more out of the relationship then there actually is, the woman wants to accuse him of all kinds of underhandedness when he made it clear in the beginning.
I say all of that to say that being upfront and honest is no guarantee for 'no strings attached' nooky either.
Littlek-fair enough re being happily involved with someone they are not into.Dont think i could be happy with that arrangement but Im sure ther ear people who are
I agree with you about being ok about being on your own, but missing relationships/sex.
Ive had to get used to my own company.
Sometimes I think,ive got the great realtionships with pals now all I need is a faceless person to whisk me off to bed.
Kickycan-Can I book you after youve visited Littlek?
You could start a male escort service.
Hey, kicky, that's a good idea - Kickypants, male escort.
At this point, what I do want is sex. It's a biological fact. But, I know that I also want a comfy relationship and that just sex right now doesn't work for me - I've tried it. So, I hold out and don't call my f-buddy. Going the f-buddy route makes me feel good in the short term, but not in the long term.
I think if a woman tells a man she is fine with an f-buddy relationship she is not being honest with herself or with the guy. As I woman, I admit the best foreplay is a nice dinner out, a little footsie under the table. a stroke up and down the back as you walk home and the feeling that the man actually cares about you. The sex is just a special bonus that adds to the whole.
P.S. to Material Girl- I agree with Eoe about the novels, but they also can just make you horny and then you might be calling up Kicky and making a date and the next thing you know we won't have these long sex threads to chat on and to keep us from doing real work...
wow, it's been a busy morning.
Green Witch - I loved your post. (edit: I meant the earlier one; we were posting here at the same time)
Kicky - I wasn't here for Rhonda (AKA Rwanda??), but it sounds like the consensus is to stay away. The internet scene again? What was wrong with it before?
And littlek and Kicky, isn't Hartford about halfway in-between? There are some pretty nice places to meet in Hartford.
hmmmmm. Rhonda/Rwanda???? Maybe I didn't get the joke either, kicky.
That's what I thought too but Rhonda/Rwanda? Both hell on earth, at least to kicky.
