Why do I need so badly to put it in somebody?

Nearly 21 years for me,do I win??!!

No, from birth to your first time doesn't count!!! I'm glad there are other people here who agree with me that six months is not that long. I've gone years before too, more than once!

When you hit your late thirties and your still single, that's to be expected, isn't it?

Oh, by the way, George, you were right. It is Rhoda.

Kicky, I have the same issues - maybe it is, indeed, a thing that happens as one ages.

Oy.

Dont worry,I think there is tto much emphasis on 'everybody has to have sex all the time to have a great life'.(and thats what I keep telling myself on those cold lonely nights)
Agreed it is a sh*t load of fun but dont feel bad about not doing it.

Im picky.I dont see the point in doing it if i dont even fancy the bloke.Im not hungry enough for it to just do it for the hell of it.Dont even know if I want 1 night stands.

Im in my late 20's and man supply is seriously non exsistent.

Its also very nice for me to know Im not the only one in the same situation.

Yeah, littlek. So you have an f-buddy that tempts you like this too?

And by the way, this isn't totally about me not being able to meet women, although that is definitely a part of it. I'm no stud. But it's more about the fact that I don't really want just an f-buddy. But I'm only human, and if I know that there is candy in the bowl, I want some! Sorry, can't help myself. But I have not called her yet.

I met another girl last week who says she is going to call me about going out tomorrow night. But she's way too young for me, and I'm sure as soon as she realizes I'm about fifteen years older than her, she'll be out the door too. If I don't go out with her this weekend, it is going to be real tough for me not to call my old f-buddy.

material girl, you are not alone!

Oy, I just keep picturing myself doing all those things with her that we used to do--my god, the sex was so dirty and f*cking fantastic. I think I might be in trouble here...

I for one like older men so be kind to the new lady you met if your not interested.

Kicky, your lucky.I cant even get a good fantasy going,cant remember what anything feels like.

Sob sob.

I don't know, man. The horniest nymphs I've hooked up with were all in their 30's. When I had my Mrs. Robinson experience at 23(she was 36), she told me her and all her friends were always SO horny. And you're not exactly at a geriatric age where people stop having sex. It's women's sexual peak, right there.

Also, I'm friends with girls who have dated guys as old as 40 while in their 20's, and a guy who's in his mid-40's who dated a 25ish year old a couple years back. Some chicks like that. However, if this is a girl you just met, and you only gave your number and didn't take hers, I'll bet you don't hear from her. Rookie mistake, Kicky.

Well, for your sake, Kicky, and everyone else out there, I'll double my banging regimen to make up for the sex you're not having. Even if it means humping my girlfriend's leg in the middle of the night.

Also, I'm kind of surprised no one's brought it up yet: dead people will never turn you down for sex.

The title of this thread reminds me of a joke I heard yesterday:

Guy gets home from work. His wife asks him how his day went and he says, "I got fired."
"What? How did that happpen?" she says.
"Well, you know that fantasy I've always had about sticking my dick in the pickle slicer?"
"Yes. Yes I do."
"Well, I finally did it today."
"And they fired you for that?" she says.
He says, "Yes. And the worst thing is--the pickle slicer got fired too."

ZING!

I have had a f-buddy here, he lives about an hour away. I called the second round of 'dating' off with him because I wanted more with my sex life and even if he could provide more, I didn't think I wanted it with him.

All of my female housemates (4-5 of them) over the last 3 years have dated older men. All of them are in their mid-late 20s and date guys in their mid to late 30s.

Thanks Gargamel.

Slappy's right, women's sexual interest rises in their 30s.

Material girl, don't worry, I'll be nice to her, if we go out. Besides, I like younger women, so I'm pretty sure I'll be interested. I'm not really holding out much hope that that one will work out though. When I met her, I think I spent about three minutes total talking with her. I was surprised that she even called me back.

And Slappy, I did get her number. I'm not that much of a lame-o.

Also, for Material Girl--Maybe the fact that you can't get a good fantasy going is a blessing in disguise. It is killing me having all these filthy little scenarios going through my head all the time!

Get out of my head, evil woman!!!

I agree. Why dismiss this new girl because of the age difference? She may like you and the age thing doesn't matter. I had some of the best sex of my life with a man almost twenty years older than I.

Don't be so quick to dismiss unless you know this girl is too young for you. My stepson broke up with his longtime girlfriend about a month ago and had a date last week with a new girl who was about twelve years younger than he. He said she was just too young for him and they didn't have alot in common. But he was speaking for himself, not for her. He's handsome and gainfully employed. My guess is she was all over him.

Sex will make us put up with a lot of shiat. I guarantee that you will put up with alot of annoying chatter until you get some. The minute you bust one, you're gonna want to get the hell out of there. You'll be wondering, "Why the hell did I do this?" It's the most honest 5-10 minutes in a mans life and women that annoy us shouldn't be within arms reach in that state. Do what somebody said and get a two hour hooker hotel. that way you can leave right after.

Okay. You're cool about the age thing.
carry on...

This is true. Maybe this just goes back to what my buddy and I once concluded. We decided that our problem was that we both expected p*ssy to fall out of the sky.

Now, I'm not saying that that is all I want, but the point is I'm lazy. And now that it's winter, it's even tougher, because I hate to even go out in this ****. I think I might have to hit the internet dating sites again.

This whole discussion is making me depressed.

Why? I always get this feeling that you want to be single.