Ehhmm ... carbuncle?
I'm a
guy. And I still think you're being lame.
Oh, and cjhsa is a guy too... so there you go. Forget the girls ganging up on you thing ... that only happens in your dreams!
Meanwhile, seven pages back ...
Kyrian wrote:Look at some of the other posts on this thread and others. They will conclusively prove that many men, do in fact, hide their use of porn. Several of us have established that it is this very need to hide porn from their partners that prevent the issue from being maturely discussed between both partners.
Seems to me like its just as often the other way round ... that they hide it because they cant know they wont be able to have a mature discussion about the issue (if that's what it is) with their partner ...
Like Kristie said, "They hide it because they know that the women will freak out and throw wild "you're cheating on me!" "you don't love me!" "you don't find me attractive anymore!" accusations at them." Course, if they're real men they'll talk about
that, then, and patiently try to explain that thats not it, and why not ... but what if it remains something the partner just doesnt understand?
I'm all for returning (or progressing) to a stage where one is able to accept that one just
won't understand some of the things that make the other person tick, whether it be fishing or gossuping, the girls swooning at some rockstar or the guy lustily eyeing Tyra Banks ... as long as you're confident of each other's love and lust for
you, too, right? And if that is missing, then it's probably not the porn that's the problem ...
Kyrian wrote:I'm Kyrian and I approved this message.
LOL! You have a sense of humour ... very cool
Oh, and Kyrian may have used French, but I used
German! Huh! ;-)
