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The Truth About Porn- A Non-Bashing Woman's View

 
 
Bella Dea
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 03:53 pm
dlowan wrote:
Lol Pop it on the real ethical dilemma thread?

People get into that sort of dilemma in lots of ways - like reading your kid's diary, cos you are really worried that they are suicidal - and finding they are - then being scared to tell them you read.


Just like you said...curious human nature makes us do bizarre things. Very Happy
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dlowan
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 03:54 pm
It do - it do indeed.
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Bella Dea
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 03:55 pm
dlowan wrote:
Kristie wrote:
dlowan wrote:
Kristie wrote:
it's like having to look at an accident even though you don't want to.


Exactly what I was thinking!!

I am blood and injury phobic - so I actually TRY to watch that stuff in films, to try to desensitize.

I can't do it IRL yet, though.

Heehee - we're sort of fighting in one thread, and chatting in another - like I said, weird critters.


I wasn't fighting with you. Like I said, I value intelligent opinions, even if I don't agree. I wouldn't have bothered to respond if your post had no validity. Smile


Awwwww - group hug?


ew no, get away. Shocked

Just kidding. Very Happy

how is it they do that.... <<<<<HUG>>>>> or some s*it like that. Very Happy
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panzade
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 03:55 pm
a comment...women who debate each other on A2K are much less likely to try to invalidate each others opinions....it's refreshing
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Bella Dea
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 03:58 pm
that's because a good debater (he he he...made me think of something else...) knows that an opinion is just an opinion. Take it for what it is worth. Oh and men suck.

Shocked
:wink: J.K. We love you guys.
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willyT
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 04:01 pm
shewolfnm wrote:
Men are visual, women are emotional. OUR 'porn' comes in forms of hormone movies where people fall in love and give gifts and get all sappy...
Men, well, thier porn is get naked, bend over and take it.

Right??!!


Right!

My wife reads romance novels on occasion, and some of them are pretty racy. I mean, in terms of fantasizing about someone/something that isn't your spouse, isn't that equivalent to porn? And BTW, I have no problem with either. My wife doesn't like porn simply because there's no emotional connection there. But us guys, you know, it's no big deal. It's eye candy. I get all the emotional connection i need with my wife, and she gets all the eye candy she needs with me. Laughing

Or so I like to think.
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cavfancier
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 04:05 pm
No group hug unless yer all naked. Yes, it's that simple for guys. We don't see your perceived faults, despite what you may think. Just the fact that you are willing to take your clothes off in front of is enough, really.
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dlowan
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 04:08 pm
I SOOOOO knew we could rely on you for that!
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dlowan
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 04:09 pm
Kristie wrote:
dlowan wrote:
Kristie wrote:
dlowan wrote:
Kristie wrote:
it's like having to look at an accident even though you don't want to.


Exactly what I was thinking!!

I am blood and injury phobic - so I actually TRY to watch that stuff in films, to try to desensitize.

I can't do it IRL yet, though.

Heehee - we're sort of fighting in one thread, and chatting in another - like I said, weird critters.


I wasn't fighting with you. Like I said, I value intelligent opinions, even if I don't agree. I wouldn't have bothered to respond if your post had no validity. Smile


Awwwww - group hug?


ew no, get away. Shocked

Just kidding. Very Happy

how is it they do that.... <<<<<HUG>>>>> or some s*it like that. Very Happy



Like this, I believe:

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Kristie))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))


Not that I EVER do it....
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shewolfnm
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 04:10 pm
Slappy Doo Hoo wrote:
Wait...shewolfnm, what do you do for a living???


How's about an audition........ then Ill tell ya ? Twisted Evil
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panzade
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 04:29 pm
I heard there's a minimum age requirement at Vivid...
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Eva
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 05:38 pm
Just read through this thread. Don't know how I missed it earlier.

For the record, Marilyn Monroe was a size 16 when she wore that sexy, sparkly nude gown to sing "Happy Birthday, Mr. President" to JFK. And she looked damn fine.

And...why are the women in porn so much better looking than the skanky guys? Because most porn is made for men, and it feeds the fantasy that regular (or even sub-regular) guys can get girls like that.

I've stopped reading the "God-I-can't-believe-what-I-found-on-my-husband's-computer-what-kind-of-pervert-did-I-marry" threads, too. Grow up, girls. This is booooooring.

Bethie & Kristie...we should start our own porn-for-wimmins film company, I think. In OUR videos, we'll use average looking girls and George Clooney lookalikes. In exotic locales. Hmmm. Thinking....
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Slappy Doo Hoo
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 06:09 pm
shewolfnm wrote:
Slappy Doo Hoo wrote:
Wait...shewolfnm, what do you do for a living???


How's about an audition........ then Ill tell ya ? Twisted Evil


Sure, but only if the young lady I audition with is a Somalian amputee. Only way I can get it up.
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paulaj
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 06:12 pm
Hence, all of the asian porn references? hehe<evil laughter 40 min.north of you>
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Slappy Doo Hoo
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 06:22 pm
Somalian/Asian?
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ehBeth
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 06:22 pm
Eva wrote:
Bethie & Kristie...we should start our own porn-for-wimmins film company, I think. In OUR videos, we'll use average looking girls and George Clooney lookalikes. In exotic locales. Hmmm. Thinking....


Masks are always good. :wink:







(I need to remember to bring the red feather mask home from work. I think it's making my manager nervous.)
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nimh
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 06:44 pm
willyT wrote:
It's eye candy. I get all the emotional connection i need with my wife, and she gets all the eye candy she needs with me. Laughing

Or so I like to think.

Heh <smiles>

Thats the spirit ...

Welcome to A2K, by the way
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paulaj
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 07:35 pm
Slappy Doo Hoo wrote:
Somalian/Asian?

Let me clarify......foreign.
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nimh
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 07:51 pm
Hey, I'm foreign. Does that make me sexy?
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paulaj
 
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Fri 19 Nov, 2004 07:56 pm
Yes, do you have an accent?
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