The Truth About Porn- A Non-Bashing Woman's View

Getting f*cked has nothing to do with being in love or not being in love. My husband just does me sometimes when we both just want to get off and we love each other very much. By saying, just getting f*cked I mean 5 minutes, hot, sweaty, to each his own sex.

I think Erica Jong referred to it as a Zipless F*ck in "Fear Of Flying". She said it was as rare as a unicorn, and she'd never had one.

Boy, I've seen a lot of unicorns then considering my husband and I have sex like this frequently. If you are comfortable with someone, why not? We both understand that sometimes sex is just sex. It isn't an expression of love or committment or a way to get closer. It's JUST sex. Now, do either of us believe that sex with anyone else is just sex? Of course not. When you are married or committed, f*cking rules change. I don't believe in doing it with anyone other than my husband. Singles can f*ck all the time. With who ever they want.

But we are married and by being married we retain the right to make love or f*ck. Which ever mood we're in. :wink:

Well stated. Okay, I'll fess up, Mrs. cav and I are trying to get pregnant. So, last night, I just said "So, do you wanna have sex?" She said "Well that was honest and direct," and it was great. In fact, she had trouble walking afterwards, despite some brevity in the experience, no lie. Sometimes, you just gotta go for it.

You're right of course because Jong described it as sex between strangers.

Yeah!!! :wink: A baby! A little Cav!

Lord help the world...heh heh...

Can we help pick out Cav Jr's name...can we?...huh?

Once things are confirmed, and three months pass, we can discuss names.

Why are women so bent on blaming porn when the problems lie in such a completely different place? When will people (men and women) start taking responsibilty for what happens in their relationships? Quit finding reasons why it isn't good and start doing things to make it better.

God it chaps my ass.

I have some vaseline that should clear that right up Kristie...:-) not that it wouldn't be a pleasure to rub your ass :-) ..but that's another thread :-)

I have a huge grin on my face at the thought of Cav as a daddy. He will be GREAT at it!

That just brightened up my whole day!

Thank you. Daddy cav...lol, I should be a rapper now.

Daddy Cav be bringin' the babies ...

;-)

Hmm...Mac Daddy Cav sounds better I think.

Or maybe MC Cav, or just Cav 1.

Mac Daddy Cav / He's gonna have
a brand new baby / well, maybe
but if his gal's gonna get lucky
he'd better stop playing with his rubber ducky
and get down to the groovin'
as it would behoove him

I love the word 'behoove'. Makes me feel like a stallion, miss-behooving, lol.

ok, well then, off you go, and dont come back before you got yourself a baby!

just kiddin ... i know some people who went thru quite some trouble ... and just when they'd given up on the straightforward way and were gonna try artificial alternatives, bang, there she got pregnant, the natural way. happens a lot, it seems ...