The Truth About Porn- A Non-Bashing Woman's View

Montana wrote:

I can't respond on this one because I'm a porn basher. I walk the streets day and night with a sign that says "I won't stand for anymore of your nasty porn you bloody porn bastards"!!!

I think I saw you the other day. That was me in the Hummer that tried to run you over.

Some of them seem to, dlowan, as they refer to all the other threads as they're starting their own.

I think you might be safer elsewhere then, Montana.

Do they?

I don't READ them.

Well, I'm off to the gym to sculpt my temple, because Men's Health magazine makes me.

I am oddly attracted to them too. They drive me crazy but I am oddly drawn to reading. I guess I am sort of a masochist.

I agree with panzade - its women who are most responsible for this limited idea of beauty than men. Women are much less forgiving, to themselves and to others, than men. Men seem to like women in a variety of shapes and sizes while women only strive for that magazine beauty.

I ran an ad for the studio last Valentine's Day that featured a full figured woman. I didn't get many calls from women but I sold a hell of a lot of gift-sessions for men to give their wives or girlfriends!

it's like having to look at an accident even though you don't want to.

"I snooped to find evidence of his porn use.
Now, how do I tell him, cuz he'll know I snooped."

"Right on, sistah! Porn is degrading! You did the right thing! All men are scum!"

"So how do I tell him?"

Kristie wrote:

it's like having to look at an accident even though you don't want to.

Exactly what I was thinking!!

I am blood and injury phobic - so I actually TRY to watch that stuff in films, to try to desensitize.

I can't do it IRL yet, though.

Heehee - we're sort of fighting in one thread, and chatting in another - like I said, weird critters.

dlowan wrote:

Kristie wrote:

it's like having to look at an accident even though you don't want to.

Exactly what I was thinking!!

I am blood and injury phobic - so I actually TRY to watch that stuff in films, to try to desensitize.

I can't do it IRL yet, though.

Heehee - we're sort of fighting in one thread, and chatting in another - like I said, weird critters.

I wasn't fighting with you. Like I said, I value intelligent opinions, even if I don't agree. I wouldn't have bothered to respond if your post had no validity.