The Truth About Porn- A Non-Bashing Woman's View

I agree that porn can be an exciting tool to use and it doesn't really represent an unreal image of women any more than the videos on the country music channel or the cover of Cosmo. Seeing your average Wal Mart shopper boinking away on your big screen may be a little disturbing at any rate.

I'm glad you're not bashing it and you are completely right. It's not the porn, its the lying that seems to go along with it.

Now lets do something to get more women friendly porn out there!

my god, that would be bad....

I hear you my sisters. Bring a webcam and lets make some noise.

Porn as a substitute for normal sex is a bit creepy, but it's an indicator of something else wrong in a relationship. So ladies, think about that please before posting yet another "husband addicted to porn" thread. Sometimes the lying is because hubby might feel he's being spied on, and just doesn't need the grief.

Incidentally, Mrs. cav works in IT, and regularily needs to clean up executive laptops for yucky stuff they get surfing free porn. She has no problem with porn, just that it would make her life easier if these dudes just paid for it, so they wouldn't get the spyware or viruses.

When you said yucky stuff in reference to their computers I did a double take....

Execs should be smart enough to aim away from the equipment.

Heh heh, good one Kristie.

The one bad part of watching porn with another girl is, she gets mighty disappointed when she sees that other men's penises protrude outside their pubes.

But, uh, not to me.

Oh and I've also decided that any time I see a post that says "Is my Hubby/BF addicted to porn?" I am going to post

YES HE IS. GET OVER IT.

Perhaps that will deter people.

I'd rather look at the girls in the porn...most of the guys are nasty

Why is that Kristie? Got any theories?

Theory #1 : All the hot porn guys are gay and are featured in gay porn (I haven't seen any so I can only speculate this)

Theory #2: All the hot guys willing to do porn are already banging hot chicks and don't need the hassles of a camera crew, director and makeup people.

Theory #3: All the hot guys are too busy in front of the mirror to make it to the audition for the movie.

Theory #4: All the hot guys feel they are too hot for cheap, mass produced porn and prefer to make their own.

Just to name a few.

I think , if your man ISNT interested in other women and just looks at YOU alone... that is fukn creepy. Obsessive... controling... >shudder<
Whack it boys!! PLEASE!
hahahahhahah

If we didn't, youse be outta a job...eh?

hehehehehe


All the usual suspects gathered together.



Maker - of course!

Isn't it fun ehbeth? Get rid of all the prudes....bring in the dirty smut-mongers!

Is it a coincidence that y'all are my faves?





NAH!

After this thread, I am hoping the stocks will ( ahem ) rise.... pun intended.
hehh

Ok, since this is a womans point of view thread and there MAY be someone who is reading this hoping to find some info that may help her..
I will give my abbreviated story on husband + porn.

Yup... my husband looks at porn.
Yup...I was PISSED when I found out.
Yup...we argued
Yup.. we didnt talk for a while

But... I realized that he is a diffrent person. Doesnt matter that he is a MAN, he is a DIFFRENT person. His ideas/values/goals/thought process/feelings are all diffrent.
Accepting him as a diffrent person is what I did when I married him. I realized that I am not his mom. I am not his boos. I am not his overseer. I am his wife, his friend and his lover.
He married me because he loved me. He married me beacuse he LIKES women.
Women are sexy. Men are sexy. That is why we are attracted to each other. A healthy attraction to the opposite sex includes sexual fantasies.
Everyone has sexual fantasies. And even the women who are - suffering- because of thier men's porn collection HAVE sexual fantasies that do not involve thier men.
So why is it ok for the woman to do it and not the men?

It took me a while to really swallow that statement. ( NO PUN INTENDED you pervs... )
Nimh had to point that out to me.
Then I realized it was ok. It isnt cheating. Cheating involves another person, not a piece of paper. Men are visual, women are emotional. OUR 'porn' comes in forms of hormone movies where people fall in love and give gifts and get all sappy...
Men, well, thier porn is get naked, bend over and take it.

Right??!!

Right!

Well, a lot of guys like the "give it to me nasty like the dirty girl I am" bit. And who can blame them? Why wouldn't guys go nuts at the prospect of a girl throwing herself at his penis?