The Truth About Porn- A Non-Bashing Woman's View

Well, as I work at home, and the wife works eslewhere, I'll have to wait. Meh, natural is good for me.

Well, you can already build up some raw material ...




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Yucky nimh...I'm all out of jars anyway. Git yerself out of the lab already.

Who said anything about jars???
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Just thought that since the porn problems have seem to come back, I'd start this thread back up.

I absolutely agree with you Bella. Im a young woman and i have no problem with porn. I watch it on occasion, so does my bf, and we have no problems with it. I think the only reason it is argued against is because like you said, it can make women OR men feel neglected and not good enough. My boyfriend was shocked when he discovered i enjoyed watching the occasional movie, he even admitted he was almost jealous, but we dont let it affect our relationship because we are honest with each other about it, and we know that some dirty movie is just a tool to turn us on! Its nothing compared to the relationship we have together!
Im sure there are loads of people out there who disagree with me which is fine. Everyone is different in their beliefs and experiences, i just think at the end of the day, porn can be good, depending on how its used!!

Porn can be great! I do not understand the ladies who boohoo over their guys looking at porn. Now if they go into the little booths and stay there all day and always have to have their favorite video on while you are trying to get some, then you might want to get him some therapy.

My husband looks at porn, he watches porn (sometimes we watch it together!), hell we even occaisionally make our own (I know, TMI). When a hot woman walks by in the grocery store I point her out to him so he can get a good look. Why? Because I know he loves me and that I am the person he wants to be with. I also know that men are very visual in their sexuality. I am not sexually attracted to women, but I know what turns my man on and sometimes I am not always up to it, so thats when he goes to the computer and has his own special time.

If your guy has some porn on his computer or a book/video collection don't worry about it (unless children are involved) you aren't being replaced, he knows the difference between you and the TV screen. And the next time you get angry about how large his collection is go over to your bookshelf and count the number of romance novels you have and see who has more.

oops didn't realize this tread was from so long ago! Oh well, it's still a good topic and it's still true!

the problem with porn is that if it is not used wisely it can kill relationships. When a person is watching porn by themselves they are in an erotic head space, and the erotic appetites that are fed tend to grow over time. If I for instance like the idea of several guys doing my wife and I thus watch a lot of Double Penetration or gang bang videos I will tend to become more in desire of seeing my wife do it, not less. If she is not interested this is going to be a problem.

It is no different than with reading.....it is not how much or little you read that matters, it if what books you pick up if you choose to read. Once something is in your mind it is not leaving, the genie does not go back onto the bottle. Watching porn together and only porn that both of you like at least a little is a good rule to follow. If one half of a couple is watching porn by themselves they should try to choose porn that they think the other half would like. Done in this way porn becomes an invitation to a more rich erotic life, it deepens the relationship.

To be honest I still think it's revolting but maybe that's just because I'm 15 I mean the majority of video's I have seen are relatively innocent but now and then I stumble across a few that disturb the hell out of me.

If only for the sex-ed aspect, porn is awesome. Not like anyone's ever going to teach you how to give pleasure to a lover. But in porn you get that in spades. If not for lesbian porn (lesbian made, not just two women in a scene made by and for men,) I'd have no idea of foreplay, cunnilingus, etc.

So unless your Moms take you aside at some point, drop trou and tell you 'this is a woman's clitoris. This is the center of our pleasure like your penis.' Many of you ladies out there owe a tremendous thankyou and apology if you ever dissed porn. It's not all garbage.

To the woman who started this discussion-thank you. I am a young teenage guy, and I personally like porn quite a bit. However, it makes me sad when it is about controlling or abusing women or men. I think that just as many people on this topic have said, just getting pleasure and happiness from porn is not wrong. And were I to have a girlfriend, I would want to make her happy first and foremost, and put her feelings and needs along with mine above watching porn.

It's very important how the porn is portaited what kind of angle and position. And that it's not playing on child pornography (if the women acts like a baby it's child pornography). In some part of the world it's illegal and in some parts of the world child pornography is not illegal or only illegal to download.

You go looking for these old, odd posts, don't you?

I’ll tell you what roger, it was worth bringing back for this.

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Like ehbeth said : “The usual suspects”
A great bunch of posters, witty and kind.
I miss all of ya.❤️

I m a guy who views porn both ways. I enjoy viewing good lesbian porn where I can tell the women are enjoying themselves with one another. It s a common fantasy, but in my case, I dont want to be between them, I just enjoy 2 beautiful (usually) mature women around 30-40 enjoying their female bodies.
But some guys get wrapped up in control and NEED to see women being punished and hurt. To me those guys represent the darkside of humanity.
In any case SEX is a SUBSTANCE like booze and can be addictive. Too many people get addicted to watching the same stuff and cannot have normal relationships or know how to deal with true intimacy.

Hi Troy. How do you feel about women watching porn? couples watching / using porn?

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It's an old old thread - and an interesting re-read.

eh Beth
I think that if a marriage /partnership is suffering and porn can help
GO FOR IT! but it helps if its only done together.
Im no expert just another user who knows the pitfalls

Why would you think that 2 lesbians would want a man there with them, or enjoy it in any way?

Besides the money that's in it for them, why would 2 lesbians even want a man watching?

Is there much porn out there where 2 gay men are having sex, and it's for women to watch, or join in?