mesquite wrote:Lash wrote:Of course I do. Doesn't everybody?
The question was...
Quote:oh, Lash, do you actually know any gay people?
as in family member, close friend, etc. It is obvious from your remarks that the answer is no.
Then you need to change your litmus test, because it's not working for you. I've had a few close friends who were gay. I just think it's stupid to say so. I fixed a couple of guys up on a date--one I worked with, who was being abused by his SugarDaddy (this guy was physically beautiful--and had incredibly low self esteem) and a balding, but hilarious local actor, who I met at the local actors' studio--which was in the same building as my husband's restaurant. They were both in defeating relationships--and they were happy with one another when I last saw them. (Quite a while ago--I moved away.)
They are two of about four gay people I've socialized with. Have about...4 friendly acquaintances with other people who meet this description. (Stupid to count gay people.)
I think it was ridiculous to try to derail the content of what I was saying by asking if I knew any gay people, and quite telling of you that you made such a snap judgement--and an incorrect one--because you didn't like my manner of answering.
Again, I think everyone knows someone who is gay--whether or not they are aware of it.
The Boy Toy I worked with, and the nice actor guy were very close to the vest on their sexuality. One tried to hide it--but to no avail. One female I worked with was more "out", but I can't imagine even her approving of a national outing for political points. Think about how you would feel in that context.