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a combination of red wine, tequila, and just a lil bump of great coke and a specialty porn flick of some typed will break all ice, rid you of your inhibitions and remind you that you're the one in control..... that's pearls from your Uncle Bear....

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OK, I sent him a short email about it, to go easy on me and why. i do feel better, though still scared.

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bear, i'd be drinking alone, this one doesn't drink much. i already drink a lot more than he does, heh.... not that i care about that much.

he's a philosopher and a poet, recites russian poetry at a drop of a hat, so help me god. i know it souns godawful to vast majority of humanity, but in my head there is hardly anything more beautiful than russian poetry. i am weak that way.

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dagmaraka wrote:

well, i was engaged once since the monster, mind you.....but that alone was a cry of spontanneous lunacy.... and then i ran like hell again, even though that guy was also remarkable, funny, kind, smart. whiner though, which gave me excuse enough to split.

Well, he was in India and deep down you knew that you both come from
different cultures and backgrounds and it would be difficult to make the
relationship work with you here and him in India.

Relax, and enjoy the ride for now and address the bumps when you hit
them.

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Very interesting. The housemate is always last to know these things <grin>. Dag, at least you don't do everything you can to prove yourself unworthy like I do.

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heh, well i did just get back from NYC, so you couldn't know.... and this is just in (the whole i like you stuff) in the last hour.

different cultures, yes. well, this one is azerbaijani. again, so help me god or whoever.

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dagmaraka wrote:

heh, well i did just get back from NYC, so you couldn't know.... and this is just in (the whole i like you stuff) in the last hour.

different cultures, yes. well, this one is azerbaijani. again, so help me god or whoever.

Ah, the metaphysicist

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Well dag, as a poet and artist he definitely must be an insightful, sensitive
person and as such he will guide you gently through your fears.

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well, i'm off to go punch the heavy bag. always helps.

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CalamityJane wrote:

Well dag, as a poet and artist he definitely must be an insightful, sensitive
person and as such he will guide you gently through your fears.

oh yes, but them poets are also more sensitive themeselves, and romantic and all and that's way scarier than your random scumbag who can just be dropped and it's no big deal.

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dagmaraka wrote:

CalamityJane wrote:
Well dag, as a poet and artist he definitely must be an insightful, sensitive
person and as such he will guide you gently through your fears.

oh yes, but them poets are also more sensitive themeselves, and romantic and all and that's way scarier than your random scumbag who can just be dropped and it's no big deal.

Oh, I so know what you mean here.

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eh, maybe i di botch it up already. he's sorry for scaring me and he "understands"....
as much as i serve as a frikkin relationships counselor to all my friends, i so suck at my own. i was just telling Kris, it's like an inner dialogue of psychoanalyst with a retard and neither one is winning.

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dagmaraka wrote:

eh, maybe i di botch it up already. he's sorry for scaring me and he "understands"....
as much as i serve as a frikkin relationships counselor to all my friends, i so suck at my own. i was just telling Kris, it's like an inner dialogue of psychoanalyst with a retard and neither one is winning.

Uh oh, Dag, Dag, Dag, Dag, Dag...I don't think you're allowed to say "retard" anymore!!!!!! We always suck more at our own because we're in the forest instead of standing at the edge lookin' in. Welcome to the world Smile

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i guess the poet deserves more credit than i was giving him. he's asking what we (he said 'we'!!!) can do to help me...

god i'm exhausted. this is more stressful then comprehensive exams.

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Nothing is more exhausting than emotional stress.

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awww you see dagmar, he's understanding and sensitive - so now give
him a chance to wipe out the monster once and for all. This guy certainly
seems worth the risk.

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Dag, where do you find these interesting guys? You'd think in a city this size I'd run into a few.

I'm in no position to give advice, but CJ's advice sounds excellent to me. Good luck!

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work. he was one of the participants at the conflict resolution retreat we had in may. i was a facilitator... so i'm not even sure how kosher this is, but i guess it's ok now that the program is over...though there wll be follow up activities.

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