20
   

Back in the singles' club again

Forums: Relationships, Yfs, Being Single
Email this Topic • Print this Page
 
 
Bi-Polar Bear
 
  1  
Reply Mon 16 Jun, 2008 03:12 pm
a combination of red wine, tequila, and just a lil bump of great coke and a specialty porn flick of some typed will break all ice, rid you of your inhibitions and remind you that you're the one in control..... that's pearls from your Uncle Bear....
0 Replies
 
dagmaraka
 
  1  
Reply Mon 16 Jun, 2008 03:14 pm
OK, I sent him a short email about it, to go easy on me and why. i do feel better, though still scared.
0 Replies
 
dagmaraka
 
  1  
Reply Mon 16 Jun, 2008 03:16 pm
bear, i'd be drinking alone, this one doesn't drink much. i already drink a lot more than he does, heh.... not that i care about that much.

he's a philosopher and a poet, recites russian poetry at a drop of a hat, so help me god. i know it souns godawful to vast majority of humanity, but in my head there is hardly anything more beautiful than russian poetry. i am weak that way.
0 Replies
 
CalamityJane
 
  1  
Reply Mon 16 Jun, 2008 03:17 pm
dagmaraka wrote:
well, i was engaged once since the monster, mind you.....but that alone was a cry of spontanneous lunacy.... and then i ran like hell again, even though that guy was also remarkable, funny, kind, smart. whiner though, which gave me excuse enough to split.


Well, he was in India and deep down you knew that you both come from
different cultures and backgrounds and it would be difficult to make the
relationship work with you here and him in India.

Relax, and enjoy the ride for now and address the bumps when you hit
them.
0 Replies
 
littlek
 
  1  
Reply Mon 16 Jun, 2008 03:17 pm
Very interesting. The housemate is always last to know these things <grin>. Dag, at least you don't do everything you can to prove yourself unworthy like I do.
0 Replies
 
dagmaraka
 
  1  
Reply Mon 16 Jun, 2008 03:19 pm
heh, well i did just get back from NYC, so you couldn't know.... and this is just in (the whole i like you stuff) in the last hour.

different cultures, yes. well, this one is azerbaijani. again, so help me god or whoever.
0 Replies
 
littlek
 
  1  
Reply Mon 16 Jun, 2008 03:21 pm
dagmaraka wrote:
heh, well i did just get back from NYC, so you couldn't know.... and this is just in (the whole i like you stuff) in the last hour.

different cultures, yes. well, this one is azerbaijani. again, so help me god or whoever.


Ah, the metaphysicist
0 Replies
 
CalamityJane
 
  1  
Reply Mon 16 Jun, 2008 03:22 pm
Well dag, as a poet and artist he definitely must be an insightful, sensitive
person and as such he will guide you gently through your fears.
0 Replies
 
dagmaraka
 
  1  
Reply Mon 16 Jun, 2008 03:24 pm
well, i'm off to go punch the heavy bag. always helps.
0 Replies
 
dagmaraka
 
  1  
Reply Mon 16 Jun, 2008 03:28 pm
CalamityJane wrote:
Well dag, as a poet and artist he definitely must be an insightful, sensitive
person and as such he will guide you gently through your fears.


oh yes, but them poets are also more sensitive themeselves, and romantic and all and that's way scarier than your random scumbag who can just be dropped and it's no big deal.
0 Replies
 
CalamityJane
 
  1  
Reply Mon 16 Jun, 2008 03:30 pm
dagmaraka wrote:
CalamityJane wrote:
Well dag, as a poet and artist he definitely must be an insightful, sensitive
person and as such he will guide you gently through your fears.


oh yes, but them poets are also more sensitive themeselves, and romantic and all and that's way scarier than your random scumbag who can just be dropped and it's no big deal.


Oh, I so know what you mean here.
0 Replies
 
dagmaraka
 
  1  
Reply Mon 16 Jun, 2008 04:15 pm
eh, maybe i di botch it up already. he's sorry for scaring me and he "understands"....
as much as i serve as a frikkin relationships counselor to all my friends, i so suck at my own. i was just telling Kris, it's like an inner dialogue of psychoanalyst with a retard and neither one is winning.
0 Replies
 
Mame
 
  1  
Reply Mon 16 Jun, 2008 04:18 pm
dagmaraka wrote:
eh, maybe i di botch it up already. he's sorry for scaring me and he "understands"....
as much as i serve as a frikkin relationships counselor to all my friends, i so suck at my own. i was just telling Kris, it's like an inner dialogue of psychoanalyst with a retard and neither one is winning.


Uh oh, Dag, Dag, Dag, Dag, Dag...I don't think you're allowed to say "retard" anymore!!!!!! We always suck more at our own because we're in the forest instead of standing at the edge lookin' in. Welcome to the world Smile
0 Replies
 
dagmaraka
 
  1  
Reply Mon 16 Jun, 2008 05:46 pm
i guess the poet deserves more credit than i was giving him. he's asking what we (he said 'we'!!!) can do to help me...

god i'm exhausted. this is more stressful then comprehensive exams.
0 Replies
 
littlek
 
  1  
Reply Mon 16 Jun, 2008 05:59 pm
Nothing is more exhausting than emotional stress.
0 Replies
 
CalamityJane
 
  1  
Reply Mon 16 Jun, 2008 06:06 pm
awww you see dagmar, he's understanding and sensitive - so now give
him a chance to wipe out the monster once and for all. This guy certainly
seems worth the risk.
0 Replies
 
mac11
 
  1  
Reply Mon 16 Jun, 2008 06:27 pm
Dag, where do you find these interesting guys? You'd think in a city this size I'd run into a few.

I'm in no position to give advice, but CJ's advice sounds excellent to me. Good luck!
0 Replies
 
dagmaraka
 
  1  
Reply Mon 16 Jun, 2008 06:40 pm
work. he was one of the participants at the conflict resolution retreat we had in may. i was a facilitator... so i'm not even sure how kosher this is, but i guess it's ok now that the program is over...though there wll be follow up activities.
0 Replies
 
Noddy24
 
  1  
Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 08:16 am
Dag--

Hold your dominion. When you're ready to settle, you'll settle.
0 Replies
 
dagmaraka
 
  1  
Reply Tue 17 Jun, 2008 08:27 am
sigh, if ever, if ever.
0 Replies
 
 

Related Topics

A good cry on the train - Discussion by Joe Nation
Wife not trusting, and wants all my passwords - Question by Pvtp
Why is he on this site? Am i over reacting? - Question by Mwonders16
I want to run away. I can't do this anymore. Help? - Question by unknownpersonuser
Please help, should I call CPS?? - Question by butterflyring
stuck in a tough position with this girl and no idea what to do - Question by mhen1111
I Don't Know What To Do or Think Anymore - Question by RunningInPlace
First time sex, some really quick questions - Question by van1van
Flirting? I Say Yes... - Question by LST1969
My wife constantly makes the same point. - Question by alwayscloudy
Cellphone number - Question by Smiley12
 
  1. Forums
  2. » Back in the singles' club again
  3. » Page 40
Copyright © 2024 MadLab, LLC :: Terms of Service :: Privacy Policy :: Page generated in 0.04 seconds on 12/27/2024 at 06:41:42
▲ ▼