Was I assaulted?

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I enjoy a posters posts outside a given thread....and don't call them disgusting.,.

When did I call any of your posts disgusting? I am not shy of playing hardball and I have pissed off many around here, but I don't remember shooting one like that to you.

I think Travis mentioned somewhere that he was 14. I assumed she's the same age. If they are adults, the situation is different because adults have full legal responsibility for their acts.

If my daughter was devoutly committed to remaining a virgin until marriage, I would advise her not to sleep with men, and not to kiss them and cuddle with them at night... Cause that's the best way to NOT remain a virgin.

r. So do a lot of people, a darn sight more, I would wager, than those who understand why someone would want to look at images of child abuse. That's something you understand.

You're actually one of the ones whose reasoning I get.

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You're actually one of the ones whose reasoning I get.

You should be more careful about saying things like that around here. Your ratings are only going to get worse. ;-)

If my daughter was devoutly committed to remaining a virgin until marriage, I would advise her not to sleep with men, and not to kiss them and cuddle with them at night... Cause that's the best way to NOT remain a virgin.

Saying you just want to cuddle and kiss, for either a male or female, even if you spend the night sleeping in the same bed, and that's mutually agreed upon, as it was with Travis, or might be with your daughter, does not excuse the behavior of anyone who then forces intercourse on them.

attack someone who had raped his 13 year old daughter.

I never said it excused anything. I am saying: if you don't want to get burnt, don't play with fire.

So, someone, like Travis, should never have any sort of physical or sexual contact with a female, like cuddling or kissing, unless he's willing to 'put out' more, or accept the possibility of having sexual intercourse forced on him, against his will? That wouldn't allow him to get much sexual experience, boundaries she had agreed to, and acted totally without his consent, and therefore outside of legal parameters as well, which would make her behavior criminal.

I wouldn't do that even to YOUR daughter...

Alright, I assumed the adolescent aspect, but he never mentioned his age. I stand corrected.

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Saying you just want to cuddle and kiss, for either a male or female, even if you spend the night sleeping in the same bed, and that's mutually agreed upon, as it was with Travis, or might be with your daughter, does not excuse the behavior of anyone who then forces intercourse on them.

I never said it excused anything. I am saying: if you don't want to get burnt, don't play with fire.

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I mean, I wouldn't report to the cops anyone who would have done what the OP describes, let alone my own daughter...