@One Eyed Mind,
One Eyed Mind wrote:
Actually, "not having sex" is not the issue - it's what people generally succumb to, when "not having sex", called "paranoia" and "everyone around me is doing it, so I must be a real scum for not doing it too", type of thinking that creates stress, not the absence of sex by all means.
Nikola Tesla never had sex or a relationship with a woman. The man was the most loving man - it's the people that think sex defines them that turn into hateful fucks (the irony).
Hol-ee ****!
One Eye, believe it or not, after all the thumbs down you get from everyone, I gave you a big thumbs up.
You hit a few nails right on the head.
Now, I don't even try to engage this Elisua person anymore, and I sure don't read a lot of what she says, as it's repetitious.
However, what has always stood out to me is this resentment towards women. Directly telling women they have no idea what good sex is, that if you don't want to have sex with someone else somethings wrong, statements about our attractiveness, whether we've ever even had sex or good sex, or been seduced, etc etc.
It's all about sex sex sex, over and over and over.
I've wondered why a mature (meaning mentally and emotionally) woman would carry on so much about it. There's no way she can believe any of us other ladies aren't just dried up prunes, frigid and bitter. I guess she thinks she's got a birds eye view into our bedrooms, or wherever else we're making love. In the back of my mind, I keep wondering why in the world she thinks this way.
She's comparing everyone else to how she feels, or felt I guess, until recently.
Found Soul has yet another good point too. I feel there's an element of the fear of aging.
I'm 55, and my comfort with myself, my sensuality (not that it's anyone business) and just downright pleasure of being alive grows every month.
That's another point I'd like to make.....what someone else is doing in their own home is no ones business. Just because you don't talk about it doesn't mean nothings happening.
