Does my husband have a porn addiction?

You got nothing to feel threatened about as porn is just a sex aid, he loves you. Why don't you watch it with him so you don't feel left out. And then after awhile ask him would he mind watching it only when your together for awhile. It's only a problem if he stops making love to you. You say your sex life isn't great at the moment, well spice it up a little, I'd bet his face would drop if you came home with a porn vid and suggested you both sit and watch it, it would please him which in turn pleases you, try not to feel so threatened, they are only enjoying the view, he loves you. Men huh, just do something for him and see where it goes.

i just do not get it....i love sex and will do anything...i knew my husband looked at porn and tried to encourage us to look together....he still continues to be sneaky and lies about it.I will come down the hall and he starts clicking off stuff....he never gets anything done on the pc he says he is doing ...it takes 2 effing weeks to pay bills....i just do not get it...that has got to be an addiction!

I'm getting married next weekend and I've known my bf for 2 years. He has always watched porn and at first, it really upset me. Now, I kind of have to ignore it or I'll go nuts. The thing is, he RARELY gets off to it! He says he watches it for entertainment purposes and I KNOW he stays up to watch it when I'm sleeping. He thinks porn is entertaining, funny, amusing. Should I still be pissed about him hiding it (somewhat) or just let it go. I'm not leaving him for it so what other option do I have?

None! You either take it or leave it - and since you've chosen to marry him next week, there goes your other option. Good luck, you'll need it!

If your're still thinking about this a week before your marriage you might want to think some more.. It's not just the 'sex' part of porn it's the isolation and emotional distance that is hurtful from porn. They cut you out of that part of their lives and it hurts no matter how you trynto justify it to yourself.. And it doesn't get ANY better just because you 're married. It only complicates things And it can actually make things worse. Take care of your heart.