I don't know what to do

@trying2learn,

You seem "stuck" in your grief. You MUST start talking about her and how you feel - or all these feelings will affect your own physical health.

Other people at grief groups are going thru the same thing. You don't have to tell EVERYTHING, just share and listen what you can. You are not the only person who hurts like this.

Do this for your own health.

Good luck. It does get better, it just takes time.

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@PUNKEY,

Thank you. I just know her death changed me and not for the better.

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If I could have one wish, it would be to have my sister back. We were so close and best friends.

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My sister meant so much to me. I hope she knew it and I did tell her.

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@Ticomaya,

Ticomaya wrote:

trying2learn wrote:
... I don't think time will help. ...
I know it will help.

How much time? Nothing has changed about how I feel.

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@trying2learn,

I feel I am nothing with her being gone.

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@trying2learn,

trying2learn wrote:

I feel I am nothing with her being gone.

i am at a loss to understand why when you have great health insurance is it seemingly impossible to get your meds cocktail right.

do you have any insights?

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@hawkeye10,

No we don't have great health insurance. Yes I do know things in advance. I don't cross that line.

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To my sister and I know you would understand.

I am leaving on a boat, not a sailboat. Hopefully I will never come back.

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Trying to Learn, don't do that.

Jo

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@ossobuco,

osso I am going on a boat trip. If it stops at a port I like, then I am leaving. I would tell the staff so they don't think I am missing.

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@trying2learn,

I can't tell if you mean you'll commit suicide. Please don't.

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@ossobuco,

Sorry if you thought that I would kill myself. No, I won't do that!!!

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@trying2learn,

Ok then. Sorry I mistook it - but glad to be wrong.

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@ossobuco,

It is okay. I'm still adjusting without her and I am scared about something I have to do. My sister would never put me in the situation I have to face and I'm not sure what to do?

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@trying2learn,

But this is normal - not knowing what to do. I don't either, with things in my life, and neither do many I know, and we're all relatively smart adults.

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@ossobuco,

I have to take care of a bunch of dogs. That doesn't bother me, what does is 3 of them. They are not my sister's dogs. They are aggressive and 1 has already bitten me 2x. It went for my thigh, bit my left and then my right and I don't believe in hitting dogs.

I had surgery 6+ months ago and I can't or won't risk a dog bite.

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@ossobuco,

I wanted to let you know that the 3 dogs are no problem. My sister was always the dog person. She taught me well. Now those dogs think I am their best friend. Ironic in a way.

Anyway, I know my sister would be proud of me in how I handled the situation with the dogs.

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I just found this on line and it breaks my heart. This was one of my sister's dogs. I was told he was sold by my bil, after the fact. I don't think my sister would have sold him. She would not be pleased to see him on the internet in a video either.

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This is the picture I took of Jocko prior to my sister's death.

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