Thank you, ehBeth. I sound to myself like some bitch on wheels, but really, my advice is ordinary - JC just doesn't know about it, the process of design. I'm not rich from it, but none of us were, including the boss. Well regarded, though.
I know, JC, that you are style oriented. You can believe me or not that I worked for a firm that did major stuff.
Please. Back off and listen to the people you live with. Don't run over them.
Your need to do everything right away is a major problemo (I say this as a friend).