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What do women look for in men Personality or Looks?

 
 
plainoldme
 
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Reply Sat 21 Aug, 2010 07:08 pm
@spendius,
Quote:
No wonder you laughed POM. Brains are a turn off for you.


What else would you like to tell me about myself? Did you get it that I am one of the women with a crush on Scott and Ryan?
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plainoldme
 
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Reply Sat 21 Aug, 2010 07:10 pm
@Caroline,
Even dumb women can see through him. Did you ever read his posts on evolution?
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plainoldme
 
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Reply Sat 21 Aug, 2010 07:19 pm
@OmSigDAVID,
David, if you think your post professing ignorance of the movie Amarcord is funny, please, stop embarrassing yourself.

Have you ever heard of Federico Fellini?

Do you know what he did?

Fellini was the iconic Italian director of 8 and 1/2, La Strada, Roma, La Dolce Vita and many more.

Amarcord, which translates as I Remember, tells the coming of age story (not an American tradition) of a boy growing up in northern Italy, proud of his mixed Celtic and Latin heritage. The film is semi-autobiographical. It is a delightful and complicated film full of crazy characters which would take too long to describe.

I suggest you either rent it from Netflicks or that you look around and see if a repertory theatre is screening it.
The Pentacle Queen
 
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Reply Sun 22 Aug, 2010 01:43 am
@spendius,
spendius wrote:

About getting down to a media centre with your certificate and an attractive frock.


Well in a sense I have done that. Yesterday I was in the box at the proms talking to the controller of radio 3 wearing a very attractive frock.
spendius
 
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Reply Sun 22 Aug, 2010 05:14 am
@The Pentacle Queen,
Do you think it's fair Queenie that you can make an impression with a very attractive frock which, I presume, means one which emphasises your sexual parts and offers promise to passing browsers?

Isn't it sexist?

Would a chap with the same qualifications, maybe better ones than your's, have captured the attention of the important personage to the same effect? Your sex-discriminatory actions speak louder, far louder, than your anti-sex-discriminatory words.

When you bought the very attractive frock were you thinking "I'll wow those gumps with this little number". Eh? But which gumps? The heterosexual ones of course.

We poor men are putty in the hands of such sweet innocence and if it wasn't for our superior strength and brainpower, you would have the lot of us enslaved before Christmas.

Those countries which practice a strict materialistic communism don't allow that sort of crude manipulation. They have uniforms. You have plenty to thank Christianity for it seems to me you body fascist you.

If normal service is operative, as I understand it, you're co-operative fulfillment of the inchoate promise of your blatant display after the gig was over and the cables all disconnected, will result in you becoming a member of the BBC's esteemed band of expensive factory-hands, pointed and varnished fingernails included, and my prophetic advice will have been found to be exceedingly perspicaceous. Whether someone better qualified than yourself will have to carry on shovelling **** because of the disadvantages of his birth is really of no importance.

Once you get your feet under the table at the BBC, or in any other position more appropriate, you should embark on a course of Barbara Stanwyk movies. Then we might see you one day bringing us the weather forecast or showing us all how to make a banana fritter. After that the glass ceiling awaits. Look at Anna Botting. And Kate Burley. Angela Rippon etc etc. I'll bet they all jump started their careers by engaging the interest of an executive with a very attractive frock.



plainoldme
 
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Reply Sun 22 Aug, 2010 08:28 am
@spendius,
Quote:
Do you think it's fair Queenie that you can make an impression with a very attractive frock which, I presume, means one which emphasises your sexual parts and offers promise to passing browsers?


Is this satire?

The last post, prior to the one above, from spendius, was directed to Pentacle:
Quote:

About getting down to a media centre with your certificate and an attractive frock.


So, he advised her to dress nicely and present herself to her advantage while applying for work, then accuses her of manipulating the system by flaunting her sexuality! This, from a man, who describes himself as superior?
spendius
 
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Reply Sun 22 Aug, 2010 08:33 am
@plainoldme,
Quote:
Is this satire?


Anyone with even a cursory knowledge of the literary philosophy of Jacques Derrida would not ask such a foolish question.
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spendius
 
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Reply Sun 22 Aug, 2010 08:44 am
@plainoldme,
Quote:
So, he advised her to dress nicely and present herself to her advantage while applying for work, then accuses her of manipulating the system by flaunting her sexuality! This, from a man, who describes himself as superior?


I took specific pains to advise Queenie that manipulating the system by flaunting her ravishing sexuality was the way to go. I was encouraging her and not accusing her. Your American English POM is evidently not up to translating English English.

I have never described my self as a superior person. I have described myself as a shagged-out old has-been a few times and I have often scoffed at those silly women who seek equality with such low down scum-bags as we men are without exception. As Queenie has been my No1 A2Ker for about six years I am trying to reduce the influence of such silly women on her thinking. I am her Professor Higgins if she needs me to be. Which I doubt.
The Pentacle Queen
 
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Reply Sun 22 Aug, 2010 12:29 pm
@spendius,
spendius wrote:

Do you think it's fair Queenie that you can make an impression with a very attractive frock which, I presume, means one which emphasises your sexual parts and offers promise to passing browsers?

Isn't it sexist?

Would a chap with the same qualifications, maybe better ones than your's, have captured the attention of the important personage to the same effect? Your sex-discriminatory actions speak louder, far louder, than your anti-sex-discriminatory words.

When you bought the very attractive frock were you thinking "I'll wow those gumps with this little number". Eh? But which gumps? The heterosexual ones of course.

We poor men are putty in the hands of such sweet innocence and if it wasn't for our superior strength and brainpower, you would have the lot of us enslaved before Christmas.

Those countries which practice a strict materialistic communism don't allow that sort of crude manipulation. They have uniforms. You have plenty to thank Christianity for it seems to me you body fascist you.

If normal service is operative, as I understand it, you're co-operative fulfillment of the inchoate promise of your blatant display after the gig was over and the cables all disconnected, will result in you becoming a member of the BBC's esteemed band of expensive factory-hands, pointed and varnished fingernails included, and my prophetic advice will have been found to be exceedingly perspicaceous. Whether someone better qualified than yourself will have to carry on shovelling **** because of the disadvantages of his birth is really of no importance.

Once you get your feet under the table at the BBC, or in any other position more appropriate, you should embark on a course of Barbara Stanwyk movies. Then we might see you one day bringing us the weather forecast or showing us all how to make a banana fritter. After that the glass ceiling awaits. Look at Anna Botting. And Kate Burley. Angela Rippon etc etc. I'll bet they all jump started their careers by engaging the interest of an executive with a very attractive frock.






No more sexist than the boy who wears a suit and gets taken to carry more authority than I do.
I would have worn a dress anyway because I always wear dresses with flowers on in the summer.
spendius
 
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Reply Sun 22 Aug, 2010 12:39 pm
@The Pentacle Queen,
And what does a flower signify? An art student doesn't use ornamental devices out of mimicry. I'm very wary of women with a crucifix dangling in the cleavage.
hawkeye10
 
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Reply Sun 22 Aug, 2010 12:54 pm
@spendius,
Quote:
I took specific pains to advise Queenie that manipulating the system by flaunting her ravishing sexuality was the way to go. I was encouraging her and not accusing her
I don't see it as much anymore, especially amongst the young, but there used to be a lot of women who would purposely ugly themselves up because they wanted to be taken seriously for their minds....or some such nonsense. That does not work too well, because what it communicates is that they are not smart enough to use the tools that they have been gifted.
Irishk
 
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Reply Sun 22 Aug, 2010 01:24 pm
@hawkeye10,
Hmmm...maybe they could use this:

Ugly daters get own website

Caution: Your eyes may never be the same.
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The Pentacle Queen
 
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Reply Sun 22 Aug, 2010 01:57 pm
@spendius,
spendius wrote:

And what does a flower signify? An art student doesn't use ornamental devices out of mimicry. I'm very wary of women with a crucifix dangling in the cleavage.


It's roughly connoting being twee and/or kitch.
OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Sun 22 Aug, 2010 02:13 pm
@plainoldme,
plainoldme wrote:
David, if you think your post professing ignorance of the movie
Amarcord is funny, please, stop embarrassing yourself.
Y the dramatic acrimony and ill will, Plain ??
It was an innocent, innocuous question on a harmless subject.
R u residually angry at me for our disagreements on other threads?
Carrying a grudge against me because of my love of freedom ?
I saw no humor in the question; that did not occur to me.





plainoldme wrote:
Have you ever heard of Federico Fellini?
Yes



plainoldme wrote:
Do you know what he did?
Some of it; not all of it, I 'm not an expert on him.





plainoldme wrote:
Fellini was the iconic Italian director of 8 and 1/2, La Strada, Roma, La Dolce Vita and many more.
I remember 8 1/2 and La Dolce Vita being attributed to him;
more vague in my memory is Roma associated with his name.
Its been a while; maybe 1950s or 60s.
I did not attend showings of his work.
As I remember, his advertizing gave me the impression
that his art was not to my taste.
For the most part, I don 't have passionate artistic interests.
Some of my girlfriends have faulted me for this.

Your implicit denunciation of my failure to join in your artistic interests is logically unjustified.








plainoldme wrote:
Amarcord, which translates as I Remember, tells the coming of age story (not an American tradition)
of a boy growing up in northern Italy, proud of his mixed Celtic and Latin heritage.
The film is semi-autobiographical. It is a delightful and complicated film full of crazy characters
which would take too long to describe.

I suggest you either rent it from Netflicks or that you look around and see if a repertory theatre is screening it.
It was nice of u to answer my question.
Thanks for your advice.





David
OmSigDAVID
 
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Reply Sun 22 Aug, 2010 02:21 pm
@spendius,
spendius wrote:
You don't "watch" movies like Amarcord. You live with them.
The more I saw of it the more it opened out. It goes miles too fast for one viewing to do much good.
Sometimes I buy movies on tape or DVD; re-vu able as to individual scenes or the entire movie.





David
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spendius
 
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Reply Sun 22 Aug, 2010 02:52 pm
@The Pentacle Queen,
Quote:
It's roughly connoting being twee and/or kitch.


Well--hopefully. But one shouldn't be rash with one's conclusions about others as stereotypes of your own making. You are probably right in many cases.

Dylan claims to have been converted when a lady threw a crucifix at his feet whilst he was singing. It couldn't have been What Can I Do For You because that song was one of the results.
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plainoldme
 
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Reply Sun 22 Aug, 2010 05:47 pm
@OmSigDAVID,
Quote:
R u residually angry at me for our disagreements on other threads?


No. The comment only looks angry with your red letters embellishing it.

I just can not believe that some of the questions you ask are for real. I also wonder why you don't google a topic that is unfamiliar to you rather than ask a question. Some of those questions are so obvious that just asking them annoys others. In a face to face social situation, such questions would probably cause people to 1.) begin patronizing you, or, 2.) walk away. I generally chose the latter because I find the former even more annoying than the original naive question.

And, I do not think that you love freedom. In fact, I know that I do.
Ionus
 
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Reply Sun 22 Aug, 2010 05:50 pm
@plainoldme,
No, its fact. Do you know any professional psycholgists you can ask ?
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Ionus
 
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Reply Sun 22 Aug, 2010 05:53 pm
@plainoldme,
Quote:
Grooming, to me, is important. Whether you want to list that as a personality trait or under the general category of looks is fine because grooming works under both.
Didnt you jsut call such a sentiment bullshit ? I said women prefer men who look rich. You said bullshit then contradcited yourself. Make up your mind !
plainoldme
 
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Reply Sun 22 Aug, 2010 06:58 pm
@Ionus,
What has grooming to do with wealth? It doesn't take money to comb one's hair or to press one's clothes or shine one's shoes.
 

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