Diest TKO wrote:
shewolfnm - Is the desire to stay friends a desire to actually be friends or to provide some sort of peaceful/functional environment for your child?
I dont know yet.
So I guess time is the answer.
We will always be 'friends'. And luckily enough there is no nasty stuff going on. As Roger said.. we just dont live together well. But not from any bad standpoint. I dont hate him, he doesnt hate me. We still enjoy each others company, but we see that we are not good as a couple.
this is all nice and roses now, but when the divorce begins , that can bring out the crappy stuff.
We have at therapist though, I dont know exactly what he DOES . We talk things out ourselves.
meh. Im not sure Maybe I need to figure out that for myself first.