@Diest TKO,
[qu
ote]Ahem...
There are how many children caught up amongst both his and your families?
If you are under any sort of misconception that how is pans out only effects you, snap out of it. There is no way the pay off is worth the risk. If things are lame with the husband, don't let your relationship with your kids be a casualty of your curiosity. He has kids too. This really isn't acceptable.
It's not about liking or disliking cheaters either. If no kids were involved, I'd be inclined to just say: "Do as you wish. You know the consequences, and it's your conscious to answer too."
This is NOT that case.[/quote]
I think the payoff
is worth the risk for some. And you seem to be blaming Conflicted for all of this, there is a guy involved too.
Her boyfriend is a young guy with a bunch of toddlers-- he must be stressed out of his mind with the responsibility and probably ought to have waited a little while before producing a small litter of children. Add to that a bit of boredom with the day-to-day repetitive resposibilites involved with raising a family.
I can see why it's appealing for Conflicted, she's peaking sexually and here's this young guy who just needs an escape from all the responsibilities.
Affairs with married people are just that-- affairs, they happen
all the time.