Online dating, flirting and dating burn-out.

Okay, okay, finally some little details start to seep out...nothing very personal or sexy, or even anything that might embarrass her if this guy found this site and read it, but still, it's a start...

That really does sound like things are going well. It's cool that things are working out for you! I'm happy for you, littlek!

I want to see that movie, by the way.

The movie is best seen late-ish in a rowdy neighborhood. It was a VERY funny movie that was made that much funnier by loud laughter and well-timed commentary from the audience.

i hate audience laughter. they always seem to do it at the wrong time.

It worked that night.

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Amigo's gettin' busy with the keyboard?


now that's online love

Just make sure the thing isn't plugged in...

HAHA!

<snicker> OK, now that reminds me off the 40-year-old virgin ..... I can't get the movie out of my head!

Myself, Lola and her daughter saw the movie several nights past. Highly recommended.

In fact, I found it surprisingly encouraging in a socio/political context - it breaks a LOT of rules regarding discussion of sexuality in such an enchanting and open-hearted manner that I was reminded how difficult/impossible it would be for the nutjobs of the religious right to turn back the clock.

Well, I'm in good company!

girl...all by yourself, you are in good company.

Aw, shucks, thanks B.

But, alas, that is not the case - at least not all of the time.

I'm a divorced gentleman and I am beginning to think perhaps I really should stay that way. I was told by a nice friend that I should; "just stay where you are" about oh, about 16 years ago.

I am now 68. I like to date women that are 40-45 and that worked fine when I was around 55-60 but now there is just too much difference. I speak with a 45 year old woman and it is like speaking to my daughter. They just aren't with it.

Right now I am trying to convince myself that I am happy with a 48 year old woman. I would like to see a lot more of her. We are very good friends but I know she doesn't take me too seriously in a womanly manner, if you know what I mean.

My main concern is my independence, my sports car, my dog, myself actually. I had an awful time when my wife divorced me. I was nearly bankrupt and had to start all over again. A woman can really, really rip you off and while she does it everyone in the world agrees with her and thinks you DESERVE IT.

I think I could talk "Susan" into signing one of those "what's yours is yours and what's mine is mine" papers before we got a quick marriage in a WASP chapel. We're both Catholics so we cannot get married in a Catholic church. I always pretty much had liked the idea of being a Protestant anyway as most of my friends were Protestant besides I like the term WASP. I'll be sure and let everyone know I'm a WASP when "Susan" and I get married at the Little Chapel in the dale. Ha!

I'm a non-Viagra man so things could very well work out for us. I am not going into this marriage expecting sex, just hoping for it. That way I will never be disappointed.

Anyway, in every other way "Susan" and I are totally compatible. I have my money and "Susan" still works. She can keep all her money and since whe will be living in my house she will sell her house and invest the proceeds. This way "Susan" has a nest egg to live on when I leave the planet. Plus she will have her own good retirement and Social Security as well. Not to mention the house, cars, property and all.

I will pay for her meals as I don't allow cooking in my house. I'll have "Susan" buy her own clothes, car, insurance etc. Lucky for her she will have Army giving her shots and things because I am retired and since she will be married to me she will get free shots. "Susan" doesn't know about this yet. She will be not only surprised but thankful when she finds out.

I've decided to order an additional twin bed. We can romp on one when we want to and sleep separately. "Susan" needs to sleep well since she works very hard. Plus I toss and turn a lot. Plus my dog already sleeps with me, has been for six years and I can't very well tell her to leave.

But, again as I said at the beginning of this note; maybe I should just stay where I am. Just like Mary said to 16 years ago.

What do you think? Please?

If you have to convince yourself you are happy, then you are truly not. Why do you want to marry "Susan"?

And better yet, does "Susan" even want to marry you? I am thinking you are pretty set in your ways and expect "Susan" to sleep in a separate twin bed (when she is not servicing you) in favor of your dog [a woman loves to hear the dog is more important than she is], continue to work so she does not depend on you, eat out all the time because you don't allow cooking in YOUR house? Yikes, I'm not sure many women would jump at that offer of marriage. If you are going to pop the question, I certainly hope either she has a fabulous sense of humor or you try to pop in some romantic advantages to counter the not-so-pleasant aspects of this marriage-deal.

Don't hold it in Heeven, tell us how you really feel . . .

Well he did ask "What do you think?"

I thought that meant I could be honest. Perhaps I am a bit abrupt and not always pleasing to the ear. I don't generally like to hurt peoples feelings so maybe I'll avoid responding in the future if people are not prepared to hear something they might not like.

Oh Heeven, I know she doesn't think of marrying me often if at all. I just happen to believe it is a great idea so far.

No idea if you are a man or a woman Heeven but I have the ability to see things through the eyes of people in different situations. I pride myself in being able to do this. One of the reasons I have been a success in life and not had many problems.

I am pretty sure that right about now if not pretty quick, "Susan" is going to feel alone in life, regardless of how successful she is she will begin to feel like a failure (that's what happens to divorcees when they get old) and then I am going to look even better to her than I do now. It won't be the "Uncle Andy Rooney" joke we now have going now. I will simply become "Andy."

As for myself I do not have to get married but I will feel much better about myself if I do and I will providing I can be sure it will not crimp my independence or heaven forbid my economics. If you know what I mean; money.

Any way you cut it, too me there is nothing more pathetic to watch than a geezer that is in every way normal in appearance and action grow old without a wife. A complete woman. Not just a mistress or for god's sake a mistress-housekeeper. I already had that unpleasant experience.

As we spend more days together I am certain "Susan" will become more malleable with age but for god's sakes I don't want it to be of such a long duration she becomes an old woman before we marry. If we go past her 50th birthday I won't marry her. It would be pointless.