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Never had a boyfriend/asked out before?

 
 
euipo
 
Reply Sat 28 May, 2016 06:45 pm
I am 5'6 and 120 pounds. Guys never ask for my phone number. Also, I have never had a boyfriend before in my life or have never been asked out. Additionally, guys do not approach me. I am 21 and I am in college and the guys around my college do not seem interested in me. I see college guys with other women but they don't really hit on me or try to make a move. One guy even hit on my roommate but they do not hit on me. I get sad (and even catch myself crying a lot) because people in college and are already dating but I have been single my entire life. My love life is and has always been nonexistent. Plus, all of my friends have boyfriends and I'm pretty much the left out one. I mean, I just want to experience love and share my life with someone special.
 
ehBeth
 
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Reply Sat 28 May, 2016 08:08 pm
@euipo,
What are you doing to meet people?

What have you done to initiate a date?
chai2
 
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Reply Sat 28 May, 2016 10:43 pm
@euipo,
I find it really interesting that the first 2 things you say about yourself is your height and weight.

Why did you do that?

And yes, you can certainly ask someone out.
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Austin1474
 
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Reply Thu 29 Sep, 2016 12:25 pm
@euipo,
Wassup!!! So I read all the stuff and I'll be your friend Very Happy I'm 22 and I'm White also! My Kik is austin1474austin nothing weird XD talk and be cool!
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Nassime
 
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Reply Sat 1 Oct, 2016 01:19 am
@euipo,
Hey, thanks for your sharing!
If you want someone special, I invite you to let go with that, make your life, be happy and make only that you like and you will be surprised of the result ;-)

Another thing, you can add a very important ingredient : the smile :-)
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Krumple
 
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Reply Sun 2 Oct, 2016 07:35 pm
@euipo,
Euipo,

There can be several explanations as to why. But I am a fan of breaking social norms anyways. If there is a guy I find attractive I will initiate a conversation with him instead of waiting for him. I do this because guys are under a lot of social pressure to not be offensive when approaching a woman. I break this tension by essentially telling him it's okay to talk to me.

I just go from there. If he likes me then it's good but if he's not interested I don't let it bother me. Some guys just need a little push sometimes to break that social tension, and I don't mind helping that along. Ask your friends I bet they too did something similar.
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xumu
 
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Reply Fri 9 Apr, 2021 08:45 pm
@euipo,
Your better off single
WarrenPeterson
 
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Reply Thu 15 Apr, 2021 08:11 am
@xumu,
Sometimes it's good to be lonely.
LoveMonkey
 
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Reply Sun 7 May, 2023 08:34 am
@euipo,
Its 2023. If there is someone you like....flirt with them. Let them know you are are interested.
Truth is, many guys now are too scared to flirt with women etc, for fear of being labelled a sex pest/stalker or whtever.
im way older than you...and have only recently realised, you have to make things happen for yourself. If you expect things to land in your lap....then your in for a long wait. Get yourself out there. Get meeting people and dont be afraid to flirt etc
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Monalisa62003
 
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Reply Sun 21 May, 2023 05:05 pm
You're only 21. Im 35 and still yet to find anyone willing to go further than flirting
roger
 
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Reply Sun 21 May, 2023 05:07 pm
@Monalisa62003 ,
Yeah, but she is now 7 years older than when she posted.
Monalisa62003
 
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Reply Mon 22 May, 2023 05:40 am
@roger,
Im new, i cant see the date of threads. Either way my point still stands
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Brandon9000
 
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Reply Mon 22 May, 2023 07:37 am
@WarrenPeterson,
WarrenPeterson wrote:

Sometimes it's good to be lonely.

I love that you give a full, helpful explanation of what you mean by this. I'm sure your comment will help her a lot.
izzythepush
 
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Reply Mon 22 May, 2023 07:42 am
@Brandon9000,
You're replying to a post over 2 years old.
tsarstepan
 
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Reply Mon 22 May, 2023 07:45 am
@izzythepush,
izzythepush wrote:

You're replying to a post over 2 years old.

Technically, it's 7 years old (given the date of the OP). The previous last reply was two years old. So, this new thread interloper/zombie thread revivalist has brought up an even moldier thread.
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Monalisa62003
 
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Reply Mon 22 May, 2023 08:06 am
@izzythepush,
I cant see the date of the threads
izzythepush
 
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Reply Mon 22 May, 2023 08:15 am
@Monalisa62003 ,
It's the top right hand corner of every post.

Yours is dated Mon 22nd May 2.06pm.

(I'm in the UK it's on BST for me.)
Monalisa62003
 
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Reply Mon 22 May, 2023 04:37 pm
@izzythepush,
Ah i see now, im on mobile so its small. Thanks
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