Never had a boyfriend/asked out before?

Reply Sat 28 May, 2016 06:45 pm
I am 5'6 and 120 pounds. Guys never ask for my phone number. Also, I have never had a boyfriend before in my life or have never been asked out. Additionally, guys do not approach me. I am 21 and I am in college and the guys around my college do not seem interested in me. I see college guys with other women but they don't really hit on me or try to make a move. One guy even hit on my roommate but they do not hit on me. I get sad (and even catch myself crying a lot) because people in college and are already dating but I have been single my entire life. My love life is and has always been nonexistent. Plus, all of my friends have boyfriends and I'm pretty much the left out one. I mean, I just want to experience love and share my life with someone special.
Reply Sat 28 May, 2016 08:08 pm
What are you doing to meet people?

What have you done to initiate a date?
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Reply Sat 28 May, 2016 10:43 pm
I find it really interesting that the first 2 things you say about yourself is your height and weight.

Why did you do that?

And yes, you can certainly ask someone out.
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Reply Thu 29 Sep, 2016 12:25 pm
Wassup!!! So I read all the stuff and I'll be your friend Very Happy I'm 22 and I'm White also! My Kik is austin1474austin nothing weird XD talk and be cool!
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Reply Sat 1 Oct, 2016 01:19 am
Hey, thanks for your sharing!
If you want someone special, I invite you to let go with that, make your life, be happy and make only that you like and you will be surprised of the result ;-)

Another thing, you can add a very important ingredient : the smile :-)
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Reply Sun 2 Oct, 2016 07:35 pm

There can be several explanations as to why. But I am a fan of breaking social norms anyways. If there is a guy I find attractive I will initiate a conversation with him instead of waiting for him. I do this because guys are under a lot of social pressure to not be offensive when approaching a woman. I break this tension by essentially telling him it's okay to talk to me.

I just go from there. If he likes me then it's good but if he's not interested I don't let it bother me. Some guys just need a little push sometimes to break that social tension, and I don't mind helping that along. Ask your friends I bet they too did something similar.
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Reply Fri 9 Apr, 2021 08:45 pm
Your better off single
Reply Thu 15 Apr, 2021 08:11 am
Sometimes it's good to be lonely.
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