Sat 30 Apr, 2016 07:27 pm
My boyfriend has a fetish for chinese cheongsam dresses and since I am chinese I have a few of them in my closet. The dresses has side slits that goes to my thighs and that is why he loves them. I am planning on surprising him one day and wear one on our dates. Should I wear it for him ? What do you think ?
@stephaniewang56,
I think it's a great idea! Why do you think the lingerie business is booming?
Men like to see women in pretty packages and if your boyfriend loves seeing you in a Chinese cheongsam, by all means - wear it and enjoy the admiration!!
@CalamityJane,
I will suggest that you wear it for yourself.
@ossobuco,
ossobuco wrote:
I will suggest that you wear it for yourself.
That's not nearly as much fun Osso. Relationships are about two people making each other happy.
I had to google "cheongsam dress". I would definitely appreciate my girlfriend wearing that dress for me.
@maxdancona,
Sure, but one can enjoy it for itself.
Please don't lecture me regarding what relationships are about, Mr. Presumptive. Women can also enjoy being in the dress.
@ossobuco,
So can men, Osso.
I would enjoy wearing the dress if my girlfriend were turned on by it. I don't think I would enjoy it otherwise.
@maxdancona,
always with the teaching - you think I was born yesterday?
In the meantime, enjoy,
@ossobuco,
Geez Osso, I am only playing.
@stephaniewang56,
Yeah, wear it for him. My lady friend once wore something like it and she looked gorgeous. Unfortunately she was going out to be with her girlfriends, and it was a borrowed dress.