Sun 13 Apr, 2014 04:19 pm
Hi there I have a problem last year a girl joined my course at college last year and up until now we have been getting on real well. She also transferred to my place of work cause she lives in my town now so see a lot of each other. Thing is I feel a connection that could be stronger. Anyways I really want to ask her out on a date, just me and her, see where it goes. Thing is I'm weary of the outcome and not sure if she will feel the same way. Should I go ahead and ask her see what happens or just treat it as a false dream and get on with my life?
@DrumW22,
What is the absolutely worse thing that could happen if you asked her out for a coffee?
Since the absolutely worst thing is unlikely to happen (i.e. low chance anyone will die if you ask her for coffee) go for it. You might both have fun.
@ehBeth,
faint heart never won fair lady. Ask her out, definitely
good luck
@DrumW22,
The thing is you're not going to date much unless you ask someone out. So the thing is, you need to grow up and ask the woman out. Otherwise, the thing is that you will live a very lonely life.
Why not? All she can say is no.
@DrumW22,
Don't think dating friends goes well.
@anonymously99,
You either know or you don't know.
@DrumW22,
yea maybe ask her to see a movie like the one u would both like maybe just maybe
Dating Has become common for many people.And we see the site for dating have also been increased.Meeting new people would be very interesting and it also helps in communicating with people well.
@DrumW22,
If you're worried about asking her on a formal date, make it an informal offer. "I was wanting to see (insert movie title). Want to go with?" If she's into you, I would think she would see it as an opportunity to spend time with you.
@DrumW22,
If you're afraid to ask her out, just ask her what she thinks of you.
friendship between man and woman is impossible. So ask her out and never regret!
@imoutthere2,
but it's even harder! If he's afraid of to ask her anything, how he could ask her "do you like me?"