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ME MYSELF I - The pros & cons of the solo life

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littlek
 
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Reply Sat 17 Jul, 2004 11:17 pm
Good for you MsOlga!
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dlowan
 
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Reply Sat 17 Jul, 2004 11:20 pm
Smooooooches!
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msolga
 
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Reply Sat 17 Jul, 2004 11:30 pm
Why, hello Deb & littlek! Very Happy How nice to see you both & such nice messages!

hmmmm ... Do either of you have any thoughts on the solo life these days? Your own particular lives? I'm interested & all ears! Very Happy
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dlowan
 
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Reply Sun 18 Jul, 2004 04:31 pm
Lol!!!!!

Well - my soloness is not so solo.

Unless'n you count someone in Queensland as not counting.

Personally, I find that a comfortable distance - I am a goil who likes her space!

Still, the airways are busy - I am finally the one making the trip next month.

Damned tropics!!!!
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dlowan
 
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Reply Sun 18 Jul, 2004 04:33 pm
Actually - it is a nice balance of solo and not.

Only he wants to talk EVERY NIGHT!!!
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Sun 18 Jul, 2004 04:38 pm
My lad has asked me to remind you - it could be worse - it could be three times a day!

You're leavin' on a jet plane, making the big visit. Wow!


I'm finding soloness less appealing lately. I'm wondering what it's about, and what the implications of that are going to be.
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panzade
 
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Reply Sun 18 Jul, 2004 04:57 pm
Thanks for reviving this thread.Good reading. I'm still chuckling over the way dlowan reprimanded slappy...very graciously.

I hate living alone;I always fall apart and the place gets messy. I enjoy being around people and doing things for them. I'm sharing a house wih a single mom and it's a joy
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dlowan
 
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Reply Sun 18 Jul, 2004 05:27 pm
I reprimanded Slappy GRACIOUSLY????


Where!?
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panzade
 
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Reply Sun 18 Jul, 2004 05:29 pm
How quickly bunny claws retract and they forget!
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panzade
 
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Reply Sun 18 Jul, 2004 05:31 pm
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Slappy said: "But you know what the best part about having roomates is? Pranks you can pull on them. Nothing says "fun" like anal rape for the goof!"

I know it is all tongue in cheek and adorably clever, Slappy - and one is a doofus ands way uncool to object in any way - but, for the record, and - doubtless with no effect or importance - I find that one of the times you are just not funny.

So it goes.

Pass along people - nothing to see here.


Gufffawwww
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dlowan
 
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Reply Sun 18 Jul, 2004 06:07 pm
Arrrrr - I remember.
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msolga
 
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Reply Mon 19 Jul, 2004 04:42 am
panzade wrote:
I hate living alone;I always fall apart and the place gets messy. I enjoy being around people and doing things for them. I'm sharing a house wih a single mom and it's a joy


Then enjoy, panzade! But you really must learn to do nice things for YOU, too! And get lots of pleasure from it! Very Happy
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Setanta
 
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Reply Mon 19 Jul, 2004 04:47 am
ehBeth wrote:
My lad has asked me to remind you - it could be worse - it could be three times a day!


Not fair, you darned ol' girl . . . i get anxious when you don't call . . .
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msolga
 
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Reply Mon 19 Jul, 2004 04:49 am
dlowan wrote:
Lol!!!!!

Well - my soloness is not so solo.

Unless'n you count someone in Queensland as not counting.

Personally, I find that a comfortable distance - I am a goil who likes her space!

Still, the airways are busy - I am finally the one making the trip next month.

Damned tropics!!!!


Hmmmm, sounds very romantic, Deb! Smile And at least you won't suffer from the from the contempt that familiarity brings! :wink:
Question: Is it difficult to maintain a relationship (apart from over the phone & email) when you're so far away from your "friend"?
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msolga
 
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Reply Mon 19 Jul, 2004 05:00 am
ehBeth wrote:
I'm finding soloness less appealing lately. I'm wondering what it's about, and what the implications of that are going to be.


You've got me wondering, ehBeth .... Does it go in cycles? Merge, separate, merge, separate? It's been so long since I've been on my own ... maybe my current enjoyment of soloness is simply the sheer relief of recovering from the effects an extended "merge" that went badly off the rails? And rediscovering the sheer pleasure of just suiting one's self for the first time in ages ....
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Wilso
 
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Reply Mon 19 Jul, 2004 05:36 am
Re: nonsense
worthy wrote:
it is I think nonsense to defend the idea of being alone. Come on we are humans and we can not live without someone listening our complaints,hopes.feelings.Especially opposite sex is integral part of our life which is very very long......


Very damned long when you're terminally lonely.
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msolga
 
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Reply Mon 19 Jul, 2004 05:40 am
Setanta wrote:
ehBeth wrote:
My lad has asked me to remind you - it could be worse - it could be three times a day!


Not fair, you darned ol' girl . . . i get anxious when you don't call . . .


Must be love! Very Happy
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msolga
 
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Reply Mon 19 Jul, 2004 05:46 am
Nice to see you again, Wilso! Very Happy And sorry that you're feeling lonely. Sad
I wish I could wave a magic wand & produce your perfect partner!
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dlowan
 
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Reply Mon 19 Jul, 2004 06:38 am
msolga wrote:
dlowan wrote:
Lol!!!!!

Well - my soloness is not so solo.

Unless'n you count someone in Queensland as not counting.

Personally, I find that a comfortable distance - I am a goil who likes her space!

Still, the airways are busy - I am finally the one making the trip next month.

Damned tropics!!!!


Hmmmm, sounds very romantic, Deb! Smile And at least you won't suffer from the from the contempt that familiarity brings! :wink:
Question: Is it difficult to maintain a relationship (apart from over the phone & email) when you're so far away from your "friend"?


Hmmm - swings and roundabouts.

As I said, I like space....


Not too sure if the same continent is enough.........lol
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msolga
 
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Reply Mon 19 Jul, 2004 06:46 am
Laughing

Well good luck for your trip, anyway! The first time you've visited him?
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