In memory of my dad

The pain in my body happens when I am tired and I am used to it.
People say time heals all wounds and I don't feel that is the truth. Time helps yet it doesn't heal. There are so many other sayings that I just don't believe. I really wonder why people think or believe in these sayings. Never mind because I think I figured it out.

I think time heals all wounds (of the emotions),
if the wounds r clean, but if there remains unfinished business, then maybe not.

No matter how long, the old wounds come back. Not as often, but they still show up ever so often.

David,
I did all I could to help, yet it doesn't heal all the wounds. I have no unfinished business. I feel like I have a big heart and little by little it is being ripped away. I am not special so I can only guess there are other people who feel the same way. Thank you for replying

Then u were ahead of me.
I had unfinished business for a long time.
After I did all that I coud, I felt free; sad, but free.
There r a couple of psychological techniques that can be used
to relieve emotionally painful memories.
If u want, I can discuss them with u.

I tried one of them and it has worked for a few decades worked.



U know, on the subject of love,
people nationwide, who have returned from death in hospitals
have found that our lives are judged by 2 criteria:

1. Love

and

2. learning. www.IANDS.org

That can be an interesting hobby; fun.





David

Hi again Roger rat and David sure discuss away. I am open to suggestions. No disrespect, but I really don't care how people judge my life. There is 1 exception though, I don't like when others say I am lying when I am telling the truth.

David,
Our lives are judged by love and learning? Do you mean judged by others or by the individual?

Yes.



By the Individual himself.
This is usually in the company of a Being of Super Intelligent Light
and of Unconditional Love, Who advises him not to be so harsh in his judgments of himself.

Some complaints of hell
have been forthcoming from suicides and atheists.
Thay did not like it much.

I don't know what you mean by this statement???

Many people, including some who had committed suicide and including atheists,
have been brought back to life in hospitials.
There have been some complaints of hell, from them.

People who have committed suicide are dead so how do they know anything? I am confused by what you wrote. I am an atheist so I am trying to understand.

No. People who have committed suicide have only damaged their outer covering.
The people themselves remain intact. If u wreck your car, u don't stay inside it.
Its like when a lobster molts off his shell and he leaves the area, gets on with his life.
He is OK.

Maybe think of it this way:
if your radio falls from your grasp n gets broken,
that does not harm the radio waves that made it work.



Other atheists have reported some problems with that,
after returning to life, in hospitals. ( I don 't recommend atheism. )
In my own case, I have been informed that I died 2ice during abdominal surgery in 2005.
I only remember awakening in the I.C.U., but I have had several out-of-body experiences, while awake.
Most of them were on-the-job taking testimony in court. It felt nice. I liked them. Thay were too brief.





David

I respect your thoughts and I believe what I already wrote. Thank you for your response.

I miss my dad so much. Time doesn't help.

Let me offer this,
in an effort to cheer u up:
people who have returned from death in hospitals
have very ofen reported that thay were VERY HAPPY
before thay got back inside of their human bodies.
Some of them said it was like being put back in jail.
In other words, u can figure that your dad is much happier now
than he was while he was still inside his human body.

I have liked all of my out-of-body experiences,
which were all very short in time. I wish that thay had lasted longer.
www.IANDS.org





David

thank you very much to try and cheer me up....in a way, I just don't care anymore.

I dealt with watching my dad die and never did I think I would have to watch my sister die too. No, life is not fair.

She is such a good person and doesn't deserve any of what she is going through. I would have traded places with my dad and I certainly would trade places with my sister if I could. I really am glad my dad is not here to know what she is going through.

If u traded places with your sister,
how do u believe that she 'd feel about that ?

I think she would be sad and could deal with it because of my past medical problems. My oldest sister told me no offense, but it should be you, not her. I didn't take offense, I agreed.

Right now I have nothing more to say except about the thumbs down on this site. The impression I get when you give someone a thumbs down is that they are full of **** or their opinion doesn't matter. If you don't like what someone writes, then say so and don't be a coward.