@Arella Mae,
I am doing okay and have accepted my dad's death. He lived a good long life and he was able to see his grandkids and great grandkids.
Thank you for asking
Right now though my sister is going through a really hard time. She has had 3 separate aggressive life threatening cancers in less than 11 months.
Two of them have already been dealt with surgically and she is cancer free in those organs. Now she has a 3rd cancer and has to have surgery soon.
I am glad my dad is not here to see or know what she is going through because she was his favorite, which never bothered me btw. She is still having a hard time dealing with my dad's death. I have talked to her about it and I think gradually she will come to terms with all of it.
I did find a veterans memorial museum in the state I live in where their goal is to honor and never forget our veterans. Since my dad gave me his WWII helmet and my mom still has all his medals and the sword he brought back from a Japanese soldier, I am going to look into donating or loaning them those items. She also has an article that was in the newspaper back during the war that talked about the battle my dad fought in and was shot.
My mom's intention is to give my brother the medals and sword so I spoke to my brother about this museum because I knew if he agreed with my idea, he could talk to my mom and get her to agree to have my dad's items in the museum. He liked the idea and I am going to provide him info. on this museum and I will talk to the people at the museum. I know my dad would like that his items from the war be in a museum for others to see and learn.