Are we judging anyone? it seems to me we are judging the father the most, is it remotely possible that he wants more spice in his love life?
If he is with another woman maybe we should blame the wife for not satisfying her man.
And ironic, if you want more, just end it. he has his stablility already, and his interest in you "could" only be sexual. Not that its a bad thing, it should be flattering.
it comes down to:
1. if you want more, and he does too, his family stability is at stake
2. if you want more, and he doesnt, you wont be satisfied, and he will
3.if you are happy with things, and he is, then case settled.
but you stated that you want more, so it would be in your best interest to find someone with similar feelings. case closed, right?
Only you know what you want ironic. were just here to help