Then there are those
of us who've been happily married for over 10 years who blow that theory outta the water.
Legally binding
agreements don't ensure or destroy happiness. Essentially, they're immaterial vis a vis happiness. Were we happier before
we were married? No. Are we happier after we married? Yes - but not because of marriage per se but because we've been
together longer and our love has grown.
Being married has the following advantages (at least in the US):
(1) Being
able to file taxes jointly.
(2) Being able to go on one another's work benefits with no hassles.
(3) Being able to
readily inherit one another's assets if one partner passes away and there is no will.
(4) Better protection (although
there is some protection for long-term relationships) if the relationship doesn't work out.
But that's it. There's
no illegitimacy stigma anymore, so kids aren't an issue. You can change your name (if you wish), so long as it's not with
the intent to deceive anyone. I could call myself Mrs. ___ even if we weren't married, so long as it wasn't with the intent
to deceive.
Oh, another advantage of marriage is a lovely party with gifts - but really, anyone can do that without
the marital commitment.