so did you or the ladies leave a tip?
I did of course... :-) It's a service industry!
I know it's a strange situation to think about, the laws of physics
don't seem to apply. It couldn't possibly happen, ever, anywhere.
It doesn't fit any of our prejudice or stereotypes!
But (if I may rant) I'm so tired of hearing people constantly accuse men of just wanting sex, that they're always pushy and controlling, responsible for the women's discomfort, blaming this and evil that. Is any good scenario even possible? I never read about it in the news. People don't gossip about how wonderful "he" is.
I know there are a lot of valid reasons for it, but it would be a wonderful shock to hear appreciation of men for being ... male!
Somewhere in society.
All the nicest guys I know can't find dates, or start families, because there is not much positive news or encouragement of men, to keep them around. I can only go where I'm welcome, so I live in the mountains alone, and really get into music.
Most folks are not that lucky, but live their lives in quiet desperation without the beauty and support of nature. Or men learn to be numb, like your dad, just to stay alive.
What was the question again? I think I got distracted :wink:
I've never shared these events with anyone, but I figure A2K folks are
probably the most apt to see things from someone else's shoes.
People here tend to think(!), so "Hmmmmmmmmmmm...." is actually very encouraging to me.
It can be a heavy topic or it can be light. If you're nice I'll tell you about my lesbian non-sexual lover, and that'll really tweak you. :-)
I guess the real question is ... Where do you find real people,
intelligent, caring, leisurely and nice?
BTW -- I don't really recommend double-dating unless you're really clear and curious at the time.