I am a 30 year old virgin and it feels awesome

Sympathy and anything else I can help with!

Why, thank you, Snood :wink:

Oooh i'm starting to sound just a little bit like him sometimes and i've only been 'dry', barring the odd kiss or two, for half a year. I dont blame him.

Good posts by Amigo, yeah!

seems like I'm the only one expecting to get laid in the near future :wink:

My near future is within the next hour or two.

My guess is you could get more than sympathy.

<elbowing Frank>

Yeah! I already said that!!

Ahhh, not to gloat, but I'd say there's a 90% chance I'll have really great sex tonight. And not with myself! First dinner at a fine restaurant, a movie, and then...well, I'll let you virgins imagine the rest.

Im feelin a little sorry for gargamel's cat right about now............

You don't see the difference in saying you want someone who is tanned and beautiful and has PERFECT breasts, and comparing that to not being attracted to a fat slob who farts? Guess what, my boyfriend is not the man equivalent of the tanned babe with a perfect body, but nor is he a fat slob who acts gross-- there is an inbetween called being HUMAN. And humans have stretch marks and saggy bits and uneven tans and hair in goofy places, sorry.

I'm a really nice, not superficial girl. If you'd met me in real life, I wouldn't have judged you based on whether or not you looked like Johnny Depp. Oh, but ya know what? I wouldn't be good enough for you, because I'm pale and freckly and have small, not-perfect breasts. Isn't that funny-- you're complaining about women rejecting you but you'd turn down most of the female population...

It only hurts her the first time.

Meeoww.

Let's replace confident with excepting yourself. You are who you are. Be happy with yourself and pat yourself on the back for your best qualities. Girls also can appreciate those qualities but nobody can see them through your sexual frustration and cynicism and your focus on the down side of asthetics.

Put yourself in the womans place. What qualities would you be attracted to if you were a woman meeting you. Not only are you losing the ones that would not like you anyways your losing all of them.

Cyphercat is the opposite of the women you think all women are and you made her want to puke. Ask yourself WHY? (and she is very good looking)

This attitude you have is all women are going to see weather you are right or not. Your qualities are your best chance and your drowning them.

Please tell me what are your most unattractive features. I read your first post again. Their is a reason you are being rejected. We have to know if it is physical. We can't see you.

Also regret is a wasted emotion. You can't change the past but you can let it ruin your future.

I took my best qualities and made them better and better then when I met a girl that liked those qualities I was in. A girl that isn't going to like me for a bad quality I have is a lost cause. I am not concerned with them. They are not in my world.

Life is a war against yourself.

Please tell me what are your most unattractive features.

I'd post my pics, but this forum doesn't allow the website I am using. I wonder how ppl post pictures here anyway.

Personality, charm, sense of humor and treating a woman with respect is much more important than looks.

There are some instructional threads about it in the 'Forum Help' threads.

(enters, smoking a cigarette, exuding a "certain glow")


hey...I'm back...

hey cypher...I've got freckles too. it's a real guy magnet.

I don't want to do that.

I am not pretending it is no big deal to do so.

But for our purpose here it is important. I just wanted to eliminate or confirm looks as a source of your problem.

Amigo I actually meant to quote you inside my quote. Sorry for the confusion.

That was a close one, I almost posted all my most unattractive features.

Here is a very good song by Henry rollins. He also writes books and has a bad ass band. This song is off his best album.

Henry Rollins "Low Self Opinion" lyrics


I think you got a low self opinion man
I see you standing all by yourself
Unable to express the pain of your distress
You withdraw deeper inside
You alienate yourself
And everybody else
They wonder what's on your mind
They got so tired of you
And your self ridicule
They wrote you off and left you behind
You sleep alone at night
You never wonder why
All this bitterness wells up inside you
You always victimize
So you can criticize yourself
And all those around you
The hatred you project
Does nothing to protect you
You leave yourself so exposed
You want to open up
When someone says
Lighten up
You find all your doors closed
Get yourself a break from self rejection
Try some introspection
And you just might find
It's not so bad and anyway
At the end of the day
All you have is yourself and your mind
The self hatred that blinds you
Binds you grinds you keeps you down
The world falls down around you
You build up walls around you
You wear disgust like a crown
If you could see the you that I see
When I see you seeing me
You'd see yourself so differently
Believe me
I know the self doubt that runs inside your mind
I know the self that treats you so unkind
If you could see the you that I see
When I see you
You would see things differently
I assure you

I love that song!

great, now that's gonna be stuck in my head. And visualizing Rollins without his shirt again....