I have to agree with Bella on this one. Lots of girls (and guys) are in it for the money or simply because they like it. Maybe for power, maybe for other reasons.
A friend of mine is a male stripper, and he says he really enjoys it because: 1)All the cash 2)He gets to be an actor and being another person for a while. Doubtful he would otherwise make it past community theater:)
I still find strip clubs depressing, but it is entertainment and simply a job for some people. Get in, do your routine, get out.
Heeh, Perplexed, if you've never been it's an experience anyhow (and it's legal!). No fear of rejection there; can let your inhibitions fly out the door.