Nick29 wrote:flushd,
Being Honest is all what you are saying. Ok..given the fact of my situation here. how do you think it would help the situatuation better? Will she be happy...i would say "No"..Will I be Happy? "Yes-being relived of that tension but seeing her sad..i dont think we will be happy. Can I handle this situation by ebing faithfull to her for the rest fo life. Thats the reason I,m here and yes I will be and can be. Will my Parents be happy- No way knowing there son has fooled around
All I can say is that I think it would be good to give her the option of making informed decisions for herself.
She is your wife, and she deserves to know what she is getting herself into if she comes to the US.
Right now, she does not know a lot of important things, so you are making decisions which will impact her life greatly.
I understand you are in a difficult situation. No doubt about it. And I do not know everything about you, the situation, or what you should do.
Can you imagine being in your wife's shoes?
Do you really know that you want/can be faithful to her for the rest of your life?