oldandknew wrote:I try to treat people, all people with respect. I abhor bigotry, racism, inequaity, violece and such like. Some people I get on with better than others, naturely. The thing is there has to be a cerebal connection, a meeting of minds. Respect as much as attraction. I don't dig airheads, no matter how attractive they are. Nor do I like one night stands. I like inteligent women who have opinions, a sence of humor, know what they are doing and saying.
Big round of applause from me, oak!
I've experienced both sex "for fun" and sex "for love"...both have their place but I would also never wish to have sex where I didn't feel I was being fair to the emotions of the woman I was with.
If both agree it's just fun - great! It's more intimate than a game of tennis, but if that's what it is, so be it.
Like oak, I much prefer to disappear into a world of emotions and a meeting of minds. I like a woman who is prepared to say what she likes - in or out of bed - and the confidence to allow me to be strong/confident without feeling it's a "conquest"...power plays do nothing for me.
The perfect situation for me is the Yin/Yang of difference and equality - dynamic, not static - a balance of giving and receiving. That's what REALLY makes me happy!
