Yeahhhh...I married one of them.."Good Ole Boys"...Damn me to a life of living in hell!
He has his moments. This "medical condition" that he's flaunting is just a ploy to get to milk it! I knew it when it happened...knew what to expect. Sure enough, it happened. Makes me wanna chip up jalenpeno's in his popsicles! (Suffer damn ya!) LOL
I find it so funny, that he can coach the football team this morning...and he's off to go Bow Hunting this evening. BUT lets talk....anything else...and he's got a "Medical Condition". (GRRR)
His Momma did raise him to be some other womans problems. I hope she was ashamed of herself at some point in her life..but I highly doubt it. To hear her tell it, I was never good enough to be married to him to begin with. (sputters!)
Lets get down to the nitty gritty...This was a woman that sat on her throne and ordered the husband around. The kids were not made to do anything. My poor F-I-L come in from work, and 6 days out of the week, he cooked supper and done the laundry. She ruled the roost. She sat and crocheted, knitted and done crafts...usually in her nightgown for the most part of the day...and he had the housework to do. (Bless his heart..HE ADORED HER)
My husband went in the opposite direction of his father..so much so, that he's made me miserable in the process. This is a discussion that we have had many times. He knows it...he's admitted it. BUT, he doesn't do anything to change it.
I don't expect him to do all the housework...I expect him to help me keep things lined out...help when I need help, otherwise, get out of my way. I do not mind housework, but when I'm overloaded like I have been and still am, I need some compassion, some appreciation....so respect. There is none....
Since I've had my hissy fit, he's been Johnny on the Spot with helping. But I shouldn't have to be a Bitch to get help. And I shouldn't have to wait for him to decide he's ready to do it...to me...if he cared---he'd do it automatically without me bitching to get him to do so.
My way of thinking...If your going to be off work, then take up my slack and help out! It won't kill ya....certainly not going to affect your "Medical Condition"...
I've never seen anyone person have to have as much sleep as he does. Which is another sore subject...I get on a nightly average around 5 to 6 hours of sleep. There are no naps to be had, no lazing around on the couch...(of course, I could right now...but why bother, I have people coming for their hair to be done)
GUS:
Quote:makemeshiver, my washer broke down. Any possibility that you could do a load of laundry for me this weekend?
Just a few pairs of overalls and some socks.
Knife hell...I'm going for a FORK...inflict more pain!
Quote:I was not aware that diverticulosis was such a horrible disease. My mom was diagnosed with it in her 60's and it never slowed her down. She just had to watch what she ate. But he certainly should not be an invalid. It is controllable and should not be painful unless he isn't following the diet. High fiber, no tomato seeds or small seeds, I think is what my mom was told.
It shouldn't be such a horrible disease...its not. I know of one man that I have been comparing notes with and he's had it for the last 10 years. He's apparently still has the infection. He's milkin' it...
Quote:Of course magnets and post-it notes won't work if he's illiterate, but can he read big print?
HA...he's far from Illiterate.....he's apparently smart enough to work the system to his benefit! Speakin' of his intelligence...LOL, he should have been college educated, he'd made a wonderful lawyer or politician! He's very politically knowledgable...amazes me with his insight on different subjects.