Re: Living With A Narcisstic Personality Disordered Spouse
Momma Angel wrote:I need help! My husband suffers from Narcisstic Personality Disorder. I am at my wit's end. Does anyone have any advice on this? What can I do to keep from losing my mind?
Any help would be so much appreciated!
Here is what to do:
Remove the extra pressures from his life, this means selling off some of your houses and other assets and putting the proceeds into reducing debt and/or into investments that do not require much work (such as stocks and bonds).
Reduce the familial pressures such as found with children, aunts and uncles, mothers and fathers etc.
Take more holidays together and make them very simple and convenient.
A really big one here: spend time together without talking at all, if he wants to talk let him do so, but do not engage him more than the absolute minimum required, in fact you only have to pretend you are listening, just like my wife does with me.
Make everything at home as peaceful and tranquil and stress free as possible.
Do not engage him in any activities or conversations which you know are controversial or upsetting to him.
Unless you are already in strapping good shape. start an exercise regime, loose weight grow your hair longer and get some sexy new under-things.
Buy some romantic sexy how-to books and read them well.
If all of the above fails after two years, you will be all set up for a way better catch!