Quote:Stray Cat, why so judgmental
Are you really that naive? People make judgements every day. There is no way to get through life -- especially if you have any morals, values or standards -- without making judgements.
The good news is -- for someone like yourself -- you don't have to care.
You can do whatever you want to do -- and let the "devil take the hindmost."
But don't think that people won't make judgements. Sorry! There's no way to prevent that.
I also can't help noticing how you've changed your tone since you first started this thread. You're so nice and gentlemanly now, aren't you?
Whereas, at first, it was all about whether or not you should "bang you soulmate." And all the Howard Stearn wannabe's here were yelling, "Bang her! Bang her! Then you can leave her!" ....like she was just so much garbage...and I didn't notice you stepping in to stop that.
Frankly, I found the whole thing kind of sickening.
No one, except some of the women here, said a word about the two children in this sad, sick story.
But, whatever. Have your thread, and I hope your groupies enjoy it.
Personally, I don't care to hear any updates. I don't want to hear, "She told her husband she's dumping him...she's leaving him...she's told her kids they going away from Daddy....to go live with a man who hates kids...but, you know, he wants to "Bang Mom!" And that's what really counts!"
I just don't care to hear about it, Kickycan. I think it's really sad. As I said, the only person I feel sympathy for is the husband -- not you -- and not your girlfriend.
If the husband had a thread here, I'd be on there offering him support. He's the one who needs it. Not the people who are back-stabbing him.
He was probably at work, trying to earn a living for your girlfriend -- his wife -- and his kids -- while you and she were making plans to get together -- and how to dump him. Coz' he's just such an inconvenience, isn't he?
God forbid he should get in the way of what you and your girlfriend want.
I just don't understand why decent people end up with jerks in their life. It's beyond sad -- it's tragic.
Do what you want.
I just don't particularly like you anymore.
This will be my last post to you.
