Nervous and Excited... Take the risk??

Waiting for details...but glad it went well!
Ahh, he sounds like the first guy I fell in love with. "6'2 with eyes of blue"...swoon...he was a sex god anyways; I digress!

About the whole 'the worst thing a woman can do is give out her number and wait' thing. I agree that it is not good to sit around and pine away your life by the phone; but I doubt that is the case here with CL. She's seems pretty smart.

I personally like taking the initiative; but that isn't for everyone. It really depends on the individual situation. Some shier guys who are great would never ask me out if I didn't do something! On the other hand, there is something about a guy taking the bull by the horns and doing the chasing that is quite a turn-on:) Saves me from a lot of work too! haha

Ok, I couldn;'t wait until Monday to tell you guys :-)

Well first we went to the basketball game, it was more of a double date type of thing... His friend and his fiance came along with their 8 month old daughter, who was absoultely gorgeous and the happiest baby ever...

We all left the game really early cuz none of us are big sports fans... which I was so happy to find out he isn't a crazy sports nut...

Then we all went to Burger King and grabbed a bite to eat.... I know nothing big but I am a fast food Junkie and he knows this... I'd rather food I am going to eat instead of a 20 dollar meal that makes me sick :-)... I am easy to please

After that we headed to the pool hall and shot some pool, must say he is rather good at it, but someday I'll kick his ass at it :-) We stayed there for a short while and then I drove him back to his place (he sold his car, long story).... I waited in the car and he ran in and brought me out one of his burnt cd's and told me to listen to it and tell him what I think... abosultely loved it, we have the same taste in music... I can't stop listening to it...

So I left, no hug or kiss... :-( but that is ok, I like the anticipation.... and on my way driving home, about 10 minutes after I left, he called me... which made me soo happy cuz I just wanted to call him so bad, which I knew I couldn't, just to hear his voice, I am such a hopeless romantic

So he calls and said he had a really weird question to ask me, he asked how my gas receipt ended up in his pocket.. I laughed and said I don't know.. and I told him I liked the cd alot... the we hung up.... He could have asked me that question on Monday though, so I am hoping that he just wanted to talk to me also...

so yea I am really into him, alot... I am hoping this will go places... I can't wait to talk to him again :-)

He called me last night and we talked for about 10 minutes, I am going to see him at lunch time, I can't wait.. so excited.... :-)

Happy giddy CL - now that's making me smile.

CL before

CL after

:wink:

Between your date and you're best friend, you've had a heck of a weekend there, Issy.

Don't forget to inhale every so often. Lack of oxygen can make a girl do not-so-smart things.

I am taking your advice J_B.... I am going to inhale all the air I can get... I am sticking with this one guy and I am gonna see where this goes.... No more ex's, no more best friends, just this guy... and I am taking the risk of getting hurt because I am sick of being scared.....

Good for you,C.L. !!! I agree !!! This fella cares about you and respects you. He's a keeper. This is a great time in your life. Enjoy !!!

Bless you both,
lindatw

Yes, my heart says this is the right choice... thank you for your support
:-)

I am not going to get my hopes up too much, but I am going to enjoy this while I have it

Well we are going out this Saturday and We are also going out the 9th.... just got back from seeing him @ lunch...

This is definately going to be a good thing....

{{{{{{{{{{CL}}}}}}}}}

I'm so happy for you! Have a great time and keep your head on straight.

Have lotsa good times, Issy.

nervous and excited....
Crazy L.: Yahoo !! Another date,and one on the 9th !!!
Totally magnificent ! He sounds like he's as totally
into you,as you are to him. This is an excellent thing.

Blessings on both of you,
lindatw

Hey thanks you guys....

And I promise to be wise about this one and take it slow... you won't have any threads about me running to vegas and eloping or nothing....

I hope....














jk... I am smarter than that (thought I almost did it once a few years back, eh... huh... interesting)

Had another date last night... it was so much fun... Yep def. gonna get my heart broken... I am putting my heart right out on my sleeve... he is everything I have been waiting for.. it is crazy.. I can't say I have ever really felt like this, except for when I met my ex 7 years ago....

this is crazy... he still hasn't even hugged me... but he keeps asking out.. and I can tell he likes me.. but he said he is wicked picky about his woman.. and I am trying not to mess this up.... I have such a good time when I am with him... such a good time...

I hope this works.. I really really do... we have so much in common but there are so many things different.... it is crazy...

Oh god, what am I gonna do??

CL, I'm so delighted to see you happy!

Heck, you're not going to do anything other than try your best to relax and have fun.

When I met my Fuzzband 12 years ago I went (after about 6 months of dating) head-over-heels about him. I absolutely Adored him and was really disturbed by my own feelings... I was so frightened!

To counteract this, I told myself something that helped A LOT... if it worked out with us, I would have The Rest of My Natural Life to spend with him.

Maybe it would help to tell yourself the same thing? Think of all the happy years ahead... the endless trips to Wal-Mart, the laundry, doing the dishes together, just sitting together and saying nothing. Hopefully this will help a bit!

Love to you!

I have thought about that actually, and that is what scares me... I have never been able to picture myself with a guy in any part of the future... EVER... It's crazy.... I have always lived in present day, I usually won't even make plans a month in advance with someone because I think it is way to early to tell if I am even going to be talking to this person ever again... even if it is my best friend

I have a fear of commitment... I always dettach myself, but there is just something about this guy.. I don't know what...

I am just afraid that I am going to let myself get attached and end up wanting too much from him, so I am trying to distance myself from my feelings, which I am usually really good at, but for some reason I can't do that with him

We already have plans for the weeknd after this one.... too me that is sadly a big deal.. I never make plans that far in advance, people usually just pop in and out of my life...

We talked sooo much last night.... found out I wasn't exactly his type though, looks wise that is... he likes really skinny girls... and I am average.. I am not a big girl.. I weigh about 145 lbs. right now (but I have a large chest also... not that you needed to know that).... but personality wise we click soooo much...

For example I was telling him how I HATE heights and roller coasters and I was waiting for him to say, O.. u hate roller coasters, I love them... blah blah, but instead he said he hates heights also and roller coasters.. he ahtes the feeling of falling like me... and he goes on to tell me how he could never sky dive (neither could I) but he wants to hang glide.. which is what Iwas talking to me friend about the other day... how I would love to hang glide to get over my fears but u could never get me to jump out of a plane....he tooks the words right out of my mouth

Ok I am done rambling

Do you think having gone out with him 3 times and not even getting a hug means he is just looking to be friends... or is he just waiting until he feels comfortable?

CL....RELAX. SLOW DOWN.

Seriously, you sound like a psycho ex-girlfriend I had. Don't let yourself get in too deep like this, you barely know the guy, and you're talking like he's "the one." How the hell do you know that? At this point it's lust.

Besides, you have no idea how he feels about you. If he's just taking it casual, and senses you're all about insta-relationship(even if you're not), you're going to drive him away.

I hope it all works out for you, but you're thinking about it way too much.

Nah I just over analyze things... he has no clue how I feel about him... promise... He knows that I like him but he has no idea how much or even why.... I'm smart when it comes to this... haven't driven any guys away unintentionally yet... and I don't plan on it.... I am so used to be one of the guys that my guy friends all tell me the do's and don'ts.... I won't get my hopes up either... but here I can talk about it right when it is in my mind... so you guys get my scattered thoughts about it and my hopeless romantic side to it....

But him on the other hand, he sees me as a laid back girl that is just out to have a good time and laugh alot... that is it.. I will let him take it from here... I will tell him nothing of my feelings to him... I am not gonna mess this up....

And I know the difference between lust and all other feelings.. this isn't lust.. it isn't love.... it isn't anything except a friendship... someday possibly more, you never know....